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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Should I worry that he called me his ex's name when we were having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship for two years. He is two years older than me. He has a bit of a temper which has affected relationships with his children. Also at night on several occasions he has called me names of ex-girlfriends, specifically his children's mom. I have... (70 words)

How do I balance my new life at uni and my time with my boyfriend... 70 miles away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 971 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I am starting University next month and am scared about how it's going to affect my relationship with my boyfriend. He will be starting his second year at a uni about 70 miles away from mine. In his first year I was still at school so he would come home to visit me every we... (154 words)

What can I do about unwanted erections?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

12 September 2005 (M) - I get erections all the time and it gets bothersome when we are just hugging. What can I do to calm things down?... (26 words)

Why would God let me fall in love with a guy who's scared to talk to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I've been trying to get this guy's attention for over 3 years, and at times I think he likes me, but other times I don't. I'm very confused on why God would let me fall in love with him. I know I have deep feelings here, because one, I've never felt this way before, and two,... (130 words)

My fiance cheated on me... with my 17-year-old sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I broke up with my fiance about 5 months ago, because I found that he cheated me with my sister. She is only 17!! Six months ago, My fiance and I met my sister by chance. And then I found that he often lied to me,the same as my sister . And one day I came back home earl... (146 words)

After a really bad experience, I lack the confidence to try things in bed to please my fiance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I could do with a little advice or pointing to some helpful sites. I have a wonderful fiance who I love very much but he feels he's not good enough for me or that I don't find him attractive as I'm too scared to try anything in bed. I was in an abusive relationship before h... (138 words)

We were best friends, but the only guy I ever cared about was sent away. I just can't move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I'm 16 years old. The only guy I ever truly cared about my whole life got sent away. It has been a year since I have seen him, talked to him, or heard from him. I'm going crazy. Wwe were so close and we cared about each other so much. It was different from anything else for... (190 words)

When we were forced apart, my girlfriend started becoming more distant...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I am a lesbian. My g/f and I are different nationalities. Because of visa difficulties we have had to be apart for the past 2 months. Communication has been difficult, but we spoke when we could on the net and we sms a lot. About six weeks ago the sms, the calls diminuis... (167 words)

What can I do to start making friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - How to make more friends? I am a first year student. Now I have few friends. I sometimes feel lonely. What should I do to make more friends? ... (33 words)

I was accused of cheating with a boy I was just texting as a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Hiya, I'm 13 years old. I have a problem I really badly need answering. Usually I have an answer to everything but this I don't have an answer to... This lad I was going out with for 2 months finished me a couple of weeks ago and I want to get back with him. My mates have ask... (120 words)

Our daughter's boyfriend doesn't like me or my husband!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - We recently found out my daughters boyfriend of 2 years doesn't like me or my huband. It's hard enough to have a good relationship with someone without the added stress of not liking the parents.We would like to remedy this situation if we can so we can have a real relationship ... (115 words)

My boyfriend lied about being divorced. Now he's telling the truth, but do I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend lied to me and told me he had broken up with his wife, but apparently it wasn't so. He had been ignoring me in the last few months so I did the same. Now he wants me back and says he has formally divorced his wife. I confirmed this with his sister. I still lo... (76 words)

Am I misreading the actions of two friends, or is my boyfriend playing up with the barmaid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a few months ago i felt that something wasn't quite right. He had become very good friends with a girl working at a local bar our friends parents owned. I didn't mind before as there was no way I thought he would fancy her. T... (257 words)

Engaged last December, but he keeps putting back the date of the wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated and now live together for over 6 years. We got engaged last December but keep putting back the date because he has issues with his disability. I love him but I don't know if I should keep going on or just tell him it's time to move on. I want to ... (74 words)

When she dumped me, she said she "wasn't paying me enough attention". What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (M) - OK, so I've been going out with this girl for a while; like a three or four months, and I think I'm in love with her. But she just dumped me because she said that she wasn't paying enough attention to me and it wasn't fair for me. What is she really saying? Should I try to w... (75 words)

We seemed to have a good time together. Why no reply to my text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I have met a great guy, we ended up spending the night together but didn't have sex. I told him I wasn't into one night stands. He said that was fine and he appreciated my honesty. I took his phone number - he didn't take mine. I asked if we would stay in touch, he said def... (125 words)

I want my ex back, but he'll never take me back if he finds out I've lost my virginity to someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Ok I have a huge problem! I am 19 years old, currently dating a 31 year old for the past 3 months. Everything is great and he's so much fun and I like him a lot. I lost my virginity to him and he's such a sweet guy, treats me very kindly. The only problem, I'm not complete... (194 words)

My b/f said our baby wasn't his, and my family won't forgive him for the insult...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, My boyfieind and I had a child but he refuses to accept it because he doubted if it is really his. But the truth is it's really his child. My family got angry because it was an insult to me and the baby, but the truth is I have been doing drugs in the past when they ... (178 words)

Good-looking guys treat me badly, but I can't date someone I'm not attracted to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Can someone help? I seem to be stuck in a cycle.. all I do is choose really good looking guys and predictably this ends in depressing disaster because most of those men are too busy enjoying themselves to really want a girlfriend. At least, that's been my experience! They seem... (236 words)

We're not ready to date because I'm afraid of what my ex might do if he finds out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I had a bad breakup with my ex about 4 months ago, and when I left him, his best friend mostly stopped talking to him as well. I became really close with his friend and I like him as more than a friend. I've told him I like him and he likes me, but we're not ready to act on ... (106 words)

Mum doesn't recognise that I'm old enough to be alone with a boy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I'm 14. I feel im mature enough to be alone with a guy. My Mom never listens to me and just always tells me to leave her alone. I've tried to talk to her, but she just won't listen! She thinks I'm immature, irresponsible, and too young to be alone with boys. She won't even let ... (198 words)