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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm revolted by the idea that my husband had sex with his cousin...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - My husband told me that he had sex with his cousin 3 years before he met me. I'm totally sickened by it. They are in their 40's. My husband still wants to hang with her. I want nothing to do with her. I think they both were disgusting, but I look at her even worse. I want ... (125 words)

My husband's mum and son are controlling our relationship, making him choose them or me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - My husband of 6 months has left me. I am a mother of 3, 17,16 and 12. My husband has a child also at 12. I had an hysterctomy 4 weeks ago, which didn't go well as ended up in theatre again due an internal bleed, ending in ICU. Then my husband left 2 weeks later with no explanat... (498 words)

I'm with my dream girl at last... only I'm afraid I might 'wake up' to find I've lost her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - I've just started seeing a girl that I have loved for years. We had a bit of a thing years ago. Since which I've been through three relationships that hurt me badly and she's got a little 5 year old girl. The thing is is that I am finding it so hard to relax and go with the ... (109 words)

We struggled to help our son start his new business, but he's just bone lazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - My 21 year old son started his own window-cleaning business about six months ago. My husband and I did everything we could to help him - giving him the almost exclusive use of our car, helping him out with petrol money,keeping his accounts, ticketing housing estates for more ... (312 words)

The man I'm dating seems to have had an ample sexual history...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

30 September 2005 (F)

- I have been seeng somone for a few months who seems to care about me but he has been telling me things about his past that I am finding it impossible to digest. He married his first wife at 22 and at 34 had an affair with her sister who came to stay. He still loved his wife ... (374 words)

Is this just pre-wedding jitters? I can't stop thinking about a guy from work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - Someone please help me...I am in pain emotionally. I am getting married in a few months time and I am supposed to be happy but I am confused. There is this guy in the office whom I met when I started work last year. There is some physical attraction though I won’t say he is... (192 words)

I've got his phone number. Can someone help me with advice on how to ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I'm interested in a guy who works temp. for the same company I work for. For the past few weeks we've made small talk. He just recently told me that he was losing his job, so I offered to help get him another and exchanged phone numbers. Well, I want to invite him out on a... (88 words)

A year ago, he said he's wait for sex until we were married. Now it's like he hates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I'm 20 and he is 32. Me and my boyfriend have been off and on for a year and a half. We met at work and he says he felt in love with me the first time he saw me. He knew he wanted to marry me. Then I told him that I was a virgin and wanted to wait until I got married and aske... (160 words)

My boyfriend isn't sure which of us two girls he loves more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I am a teenage girl I have been seeing the guy of my dreams. I liked him since the end of last year, finally he asked me out. We already made love and our relationship is getting deeper. One night he went to a party, I couldn't make it. He went and saw the girl he used to ... (137 words)

Could my partner really have been blackmailed into sleeping with another woman for 6 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 5 years and we have a 17 month old daughter. I love him very much but I recently found out that my partner has been cheating on me for the last 6 months. He says that it didn’t mean anything and that he was blackmailed into it. He claims ... (181 words)

Sex gives me uncomfortable flashbacks of finding myself pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I was 19 when I found out I was pregnant by a man who I’d been seeing for 9 months. He said that he would wait until I was ready before we had sex but one night on my birthday he took me out to a club, he got me drunk and took advantage of me. I woke up the following morning on ... (278 words)

Not attracted to men, I can't really see myself as a lesbian either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I didn’t know where to turn but here I found a website where I can voice my confusion. It is difficult to say, but my problem is beginning a relationship. I have been confused about my sexual orientation for a long time now, about six years. This along with other reasons ... (277 words)

All we do is argue, but I can't imagine leaving him... Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 953 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him very much and know he loves me. The problem is for the past few months we have done nothing but argue. I am so unhappy and have even thought about leaving, but I know I couldnt imagine life without him. We disagree about ... (368 words)

Our relationship has always been long distance, so I don't have much experience in any of the usual things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 953 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I am 27 and for the last 9 months I have had a long distance relationship with a guy I dated 10 months ago when I visited his country. At the time he had just ended a relationship with his girlfriend. I have pretty strong feelings for him. He always teases me about the fact ... (414 words)

When we're apart, I get worried that my boyfriend will leave me for someone new...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 648 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - Hi, thanks for being willing to help me with this! What's going on is, I like his guy and he likes me, and we both live apart. Even though that kind of sucks because sometimes I fear he'll lose feelings for me from being away. I have trust in him, and I know he wouldn't... (303 words)

My girlfriend is going through so much! I just want to know how to help her talk about it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - I have a big problem. My girlfriend won't ever tell me what is wrong and she has confronted me about this a few times. I do not know what to say and freeze when I know something is wrong. She is going through a lot right now and I want to be there for her. I love this gir... (179 words)

The fact that my lady friend is being stalked by a workmate makes her hesitant to consider a relationship with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - I just met the girl of my dreams but she just got out of a very bad relationship and the guy keeps stalking her. They both work for the same company. She came to visit me in Key West durning the Poker Run last month. Then a hurricane came thru, Katrina, and she invited ... (416 words)

We broke up promising to be "friends", but now she's mad because I called her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 2 years just recently broke up. It was because of one stupid arguement but I guess you can say the separation was a long time coming. When we were together it was perfect and we were both full of love. We even had talked about marriage. Then because ... (193 words)

I'm always the one to initiate sex with my boyfriend. The lack of intimacy is driving me mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I don't understand....my boyfriend never seems to be in the mood. I ask him if anything is wrong....I try to get him in the mood, and that usually doesn't work. I am usually a very affectionate person, but this lack of intimacy makes me feel like I'm losing my mind. If I knew ... (77 words)

Too shy to talk to the girl directly, I sent her a poem and a rose instead...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - Hi I have fallen for a Girl and am too shy to go and speak to her I didn't know what else to do so I sent her a rose with a poem telling her that I liked her and that I wanted to ask her out. I left a text number but she didn't reply. I guess she is not interested but n... (117 words)