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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My holiday romance could continue here at home, but I think he's protecting his feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 979 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I met a really lovely guy on holiday. He pursued me, and I was completely swept off my feet. At first I never really thought it would be anything more than a holiday romance, but when we returned home we spoke on the phone every day, and have met up three times. Each time ... (234 words)

To reduce the hurt, is it better to just cut off all contact with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

4 September 2005 (M) - My ex and I split up in July. We had an upsetting break up when she dumped me for a friend of hers. We went on a break. I suggested it and she was heartbroken. I really upset her. In the break, she got over me and didn't want to risk getting hurt again. Recently howev... (347 words)

Should my baby and I go home to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 19 months. We have a new baby which he didn't really want. As a result of this, after leaving hospital I returned home to my parents' house. I am now at their house, but want to return home, however there are things stopping me. My ... (171 words)

My girl can't make her mind up whether to choose the other lad or me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

4 September 2005 (M) - hi I have just had a big uproar with my girl. It all started cos she said that she had feelings for another lad, but she does not want to lose me. I still love her and now she is trying to make her mind up. How can I help her choose me? ... (57 words)

I want to know if my male friend is just being chatty, or if he might be interested in me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a male friend who I meet up with once every month/2 months for a drink amongst friends. However over the last 6 months I have noticed when he feels no-one is looking he winks at me and when we went out last week, after he had winked at me and the person sat between us ... (207 words)

Do I tell what I know about my sexual abuser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a problem from my past which is coming back to haunt me. I was sexually abused by a family 'friend' when I was 6. I never told anyone and after a few years, I stopped seeing him so he couldn't do anything to me anymore. I never told my parents, as it would upset them. ... (220 words)

She's attractive, persistant...and married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (M) - I am a single male of 55 and recently left a place of work where I had a friendship with a lady who is married. She is 40 and asked me out several times, and although I was polite and declined, she was persistent and I have met her a couple of times. She has been with her hu... (124 words)

Has my husband always been bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 804 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a bi-sexual, cybercheating husband. The catch, or better yet, is he's only like this when he's under the influence. My question is, has he always been bi-sexual, that certain drugs just makes him desire other sexual wants?... (40 words)

I'm pregnant to my boyfriend... In Thailand, this isn't allowed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

4 September 2005 (M) - Firstly I have to telll all of you that I am a Thai lady. Actually Thai lady can marry just only once and we cannot get pregnant before getting married. Whoever does that must be punished from the society, like gossiping etc. All of you may be American or European, you can ... (231 words)

What did he mean? "Too attached"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I really like this guy, we spent 3 months together hanging out. We decided that we were going to be friends with benefits. Things were going really well, he was getting really affectionate, and it looked like we had a lot in common. Then after a really great weeke... (130 words)

My friend's girlfriend is so jealous, she wants us to break off any contact!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a problem with a friend in my classroom. I am an 18 year-old girl and I have a close friend. He is very poppular in my classroom but I never feel about him more than a friend. He has girlfriend that very lovely, cool and talent but she is very jealous of him. She doesn't ... (146 words)

Should I tell my friend about the way my feelings for her are developing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 974 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I'm falling in love with my good friend. She is very nice, sweet and generous. We've been friends for several years. I first met her at an orientation camp before we went to the USA on an exchange programme. I like talking to her because she always g... (102 words)

I don't expect love with my ex... I just want it to end nicely!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - Three years ago I suffered a really messy break up with my first love - but I've still held onto the love, I suppose. I've had other boyfriends since, but never felt the same. Recently, we started sleeping together again - but only a few times and only when we've had a few dr... (178 words)

I want to get to know a boy who visits my neighbours...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - There's a boy who comes to my next door neighbour's house every 2nd weekend and I really think he's nice and hot. The problem is I find it hard to talk to him since I only see him every 2nd weekend and I'm not that close to my next door neighbours, so I can't just turn up at ... (158 words)

I've never really gotten over my confusing feelings for my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - How should I procede with this relationship? I've been friends with this guy since my Senior year of high school. I am now 25. We have kept in really good touch over the years, but have lived across the country from each other since college started. Basically, I've ... (471 words)