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writes: Me and my boyfriend broke up last month on the 26th. I found out I was pregnant. I told him, we got back together this month. He seemed happy about it, but he doesn't want to do right.I ask him to come over when he's at home sometimes. He says he's coming but he never shows up. There's another female staying at his house with him but every time I question him about it he says it's his mother's friend's daughter and that nothing is going on between the two of them. He also has females that are his "friends".Can I trust him? I don't know what to do.
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reader, missdee +, writes (28 September 2005):
You didn't say why you and your boyfriend broke up. Did you two only get back together because of the baby, or was you two trying to work it out before you found out you was pregnant?
Take in account all the information involved.. You ask him to come over sometimes and he says he will but don't show up. What's his excuse?? He has another female living with him that is his "mother's friend's daughter." My question is why???? He shouldn't have her living there when he is commited to you and the baby..
My questions is why is his "mother's friend's daughter" staying with him if there is nothing going on??
Why does he not come when he says he will?? Why are you {the future mother of his child) that "he seemed happy about" not number 1 in his life!!
I can understand him having alot of female friends .. Nothing is wrong with that.. but.....The woman he loves is having his baby... shouldn't he want to be with you as much as possible/? Read between the lines.
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reader, Delila +, writes (28 September 2005):
Hi Desuhnna,
You are on very shakey ground here. You need to get you're priorities right
1) Most important focus on your health, look after yourself and eat well. Take some yoga classes and keep up good relations with your family and friends.
2) During the next nine months just tell yourself that you are not going to make any tough decisions if you can help it. That includes no breaking up or getting back together, if you start to stress just say "I don't need this right now" and walk away.
3) Stay away from people who cause you to stress out this includes your boyfriend (if he is interested he needs to be there for you, if he's not then let him go until after you have the baby).
Best of luck.
A great message board for pregnancy is "www.rollercoaster.ie"
Best of luck and mind yourself.
Delila
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reader, vigogirl +, writes (27 September 2005):
You know what girl, I can bet that you are a very beautiful woman and if he can't handle the fact that he is going to be a daddy then let him go especially if he has already got women by his place. Many women can raise a child without a man, I've got four. Most men only bring trouble and that jeopardizes your future with you baby, who is going to love through right and wrong wheither their dad is mad at you or whatever. Just think he isn't good enough for you any way. so kick his ass to the curb, see if he would be more interested then, become a man and face the facts, be open and honest with him, if he can't handle it fuck em.
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