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I don't have the same feelings as she does-how do I tell her with causing hurt feelings?

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Question - (11 December 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2005)
A male , anonymous writes:

I have been Going out with this girl for few weeks now and i did fancy her. But recently i feel as though we should just be friends. But i dont no how to word it 2 her, she still very much likes me but i dont feel the same way. Can anyone help me out on this matter? How can i tell her that i dont want 2 be in a relationship without making her upset.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2005):

i'd say tell her in person, and tell her honestly. it's going to be like a bandaid: it might hurt for a minute, but then it'll be all over (and you can reume with the rest of your life!) you are lucky that you found out that you have no feelings for her this early in the relationship...any longer and i'm sure there would have been more hurt. it is better to end it asap than to lead this girl on when the feelings aren't really there.

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A female reader, kiwidew69 +, writes (12 December 2005):

Hello. You didn't say how old you was. This one time..I was dating a guy 4 years older than me...he "went away" on a trip and NEVER CAME BACK (or so it seemed)...he just didnt have the balls to say it was over.DON'T BE LIKE THIS LOSER!!!lol

Just tell her straight up...that you like her as a friend,think shes a beautiful person..and would love to remain her friend...I hope she appreciates your honesty and don't give you alot of grief.Good luck :-)

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