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writes: Dear cupid, I might be in the most confusing situation then I can ever think of. Well first let me start off that I am a young wife and mother of two. I am only 22 years old. My husband and I have been together for about 6 years and married for two, but before we ever got together my husband's brother was very madly in love with me for a while. When he found out that his brother had won me over he was very upset. Time passed and then he got married to great person, who now I am very close to. Well my husband and I are not the same as we use to be. Sometimes I feel like I don't even love him anymore. So the other day my brother in law confessed to me that he still loves me and never stopped loving me. Then I realized that I always cared about him but never wanted to admit it to myself. I now have so much feelings for him and just the other day we kissed. He as well has lots of problems with his wife; they always argue since they got married and she says she's not happy with him. I feel really bad, but at the same time I feel that he was always mine. I have no idea what to do. What should be this best thing for me to do about this? Please help. Confused Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): well i know just what your going through almost everything you said i am too i'm even 22 too
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): Are you sure that you have real feelings for this brother-in-law? or only think that because he said he had feelings for you first? you said that you never really were in love with him before but he was in love with you. maybe you are just looking for an alternative because things are not working out with your husband. does your husband know about the way his brother has been acting toward you? maybe it's time for you and your husband to attend some serious couples counselling. you need to work out all of your true feelings before you can even begin thinking about unravelling this situation. focus on your husband, talk to him about his needs...you obviously married him over his brother for a reason!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2005): Hi,i say dont do it as tempting as it might feel,seek professional help for your marriage,if not sit with your hubby and talk things out.I'm thinking here that you both got together really young,have kids that has taken the sensual joy out of the marriage.i really dont think youre in love with the brother but looking for a way out and he has return those signs/feelings and you think youre in love.You need to take time away from everything with the hubby,take a cruise,go fishing or camping,even a candlelight dinner and the hotel room can do the trick,the bottom line is take time away from kids and reserve time for you 2 alone,do your hair,wear a sexy red or black dress with nothing but a thong underneath,nice pair of heels,have your nails done,put on makeup and show him a nice time,forget the brotherinlaw,and think of your husband,take care!
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