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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My fiance seems to have no goals or ambition

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my fiance just turned 30. He lives at home with his parents, going to community college for the last 10 years now trying to get his bachelors, and has no work or real relationship experience. His 'income' comes from his parents by working ...

I think I made a terrible mistake and need help making amends

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I made a terrible mistake. I am a college student, but I am an older one trying to get a second degree. One of my teachers is the same age as me (and I am also a female). She invited me to couple of her concerts (she plays instruments in a group). ...

My girlfriend claims we got too close too soon

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - I'm so confused on what my gf is taking about. She said she's to attached to me to soon and feels she needs to take a step back. . We've been dating 3 months. The other day she's talking about me meeting all her family and her son and now this. I ...

Was his relationship with his ex that much easier than being with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hope you can help me and my boyfriend were together for two years I met him in a club and he chased me he had a girlfriend at the time but told me he hadn't loved her for ages but she had a four year old daughter so was hard to split up I told him ...

Will he ever stop going on dating sites? I hesitate to allow our relationship to develop further because of this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Can someone please answer, because I think I am slowly losing my mind through this. I have been dating for three years now. He wants to take our relationship further, but I can`t. The reason I can`t is because for at least two years, I have be...

I am his Gf. She was his crush. Now he's talking to her online. Am I missing something here? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hey, I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now,we go to the same university! But before he met me he was crazily in love with a crush on a fellow student.. They were in the same class and he was head over heels in love with her. Yet when h...

My boyfriend and his ex...is he lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I need advice people, here's my dilemma: I have a boyfriend of 7 months now, I met him two years ago and he did then have a gf and I had a bf, nothing came of it, just regular chats here and there. I broke up with my BF and he also broke up with his...

Wife wants to take a break but we have 3 kids and 12 years together! How am I supposed to deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - So I've been in a relationship for 12+ years. Me and her have three beautiful kids together...two boys and my baby girl. We've been going through a rough patch over the last few months, I found out she somehow got in contact with someone from her...

We spend every night together and act as married but I am living out of a bag!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - For the most part I am living with my boyfriend. We spend every night together at his house. He calls it ours, we share everything like a married couple. Yet, my belongings are not moved in. I live from a bag and when I brought it up we had an ...

Friend tried to get me to sleep with him, even though I have a boyfriend. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Okay. Recently I have got back with my ex-boyfriend, things have been okay between us, and I guess for once things are looking up. However there is a slight problem. Me and my boyfr...

Why do we have sex only when my boyfriend wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hiya, so i posted a question on here yesterday and the people didnt really understand what I ws trying to day so and gonna try again I have been with my Boyfriend for 3 years. It's our sex life that I think is the problem. We have sex, oral e...

Is there any way out of this clash of values and attitudes? She wants to stop having sex until the wedding day (no date set for wedding yet)

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - Hello, This is a bit long-winded but I hope you enjoy the ride. It's certainly been interesting for me. The backstory: I'm a 33 y/o professional traveling musician from the states. Three years ago I met a lovely 33 y/o girl in Germany ...

I want to show him I've changed. Shall I write him a letter telling him how sorry I am and how I've changed and see him face to face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I were together for three years but he finished with me six months ago after we kept going on breaks and I kept on finishing with him. We had a really good relationship but we both got stuck in a rut. I lost my job and had bill...

How would you see this situation if it was you? When sober he doesn't want us "official" but when drunk he "loves me" ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - hey guys. after a bit of advice, its really complicated to me but ill try my best to explain it. so, i started working at a job in 2009. I'm a friendly person so got on well with everyone although there was one group i got realy close with, abou...

I'm pregnant, we're engaged and yet I feel like we are hitting rock bottom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm twenty, and my fiance is 24 now. We've been living together and been together for two years plus. The first six months we've been living together, things were amazing. He wasn't afraid of PDA, kissing, hugging, he wanted to cuddle a lot, we had ...

I don't want to be this man's toy and then he moves on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm currently dating a Saudi guy (we are both studying abroad): he is an awesome person and hanging out with him is fun (on a mental level). We hang out, been a little physical (foreplay) but haven't gone all the way yet. I'm afraid that once we ...

Boyfriend got me a job where he works but tells me I am not to acknowledge him in any way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in a layoff situation, and my bf (of 3 years) told me he can find some position in his company and he did and i got a job there through his recommandation. His work collegues does not know im his gf which is fine with me. Bu...

After 3 years he still introduces me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Three years dating and I'm still introduced as a "friend." Hurt like hell but I'm stupid. He's a sweet guy in other ways, we get along SO well, he cares for me and it's obvious in how he helps me and soothes me when I'm down. People say he's in love ...

Help me my boyfriend likes my best friend and porn and lies about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for going on 3 years now .... we didnt have any problems In the beginning of the relationship .... I would say a year in to it we were having sex and we went for like hours and hours so I said I needed a ...

My ex wants me to apologize to his mother for raising my voice to her. Why should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - my ex have a woman while he was with me. i asked him about he said nothing. i ask him about our relationship he said nothing. i found out and keeping to my self, he have made attempt to pull me in back after the two days i found out. i didn't b...