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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do you communicate with someone who is so closed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Hello there - I am having serious communication issues with my partner and it seems to be going downhill rapidly. I really dont know what to do about it apart from leave him or get relationship counselling. I am at the end of my tether trying to...

His crazy ex endlessly contacts him and now knows our address, and sent him a card, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Hi aunts... I need some help. My boyfriend of two years had a very mentally unstable girlfriend about 6 years ago. He still cares about her and wants to help her be happy, but they aren't talking atm because she is inappropriate when it comes to...

Are all sexual relationships a roller coaster ride?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - I have been warned by a lot of people that sexual relationships are not all their cracked up to be. That there are a lot of ups and downs. Is this true? Or is it possible to have a relationship where there are plenty of ups and few downs?...

Losing the baby, financial difficulties, my drinking, his insensitivity... it's all a big mess!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Hi all. I have a very difficult situation and am very torn as to what to do. I have always had a difficult situation with my bf but recently things got worse. In October we bought a house together and we have a joint mortgage. I also found out that...

How involved should I be with my niece's choices?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - My Niece is 14 and she has changed dramatically in her teenage years from the very considerate and empathetic girl she once was, to a looks obsessed, withdrawn and troubled teen. Her parents are now divorced and I suspect her Mum to be in part ...

What is more important? Her wellbeing or my sanity? Help...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - i am a bisexual girl and i just got out of a 2-year "weird thing". well it was definately not a relationship but not friendship either... when i met her we both became interested in each other but we were both seeing people. when some months later i ...

Am I paranoid or is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Okay, I'm not sure if i am paranoid that my boyfriend is cheating or if he really is so i need your guys help. Okay i don't have proof that he is cheating. He don't have a phone anymore cause he says he can't afford one anymore since he has a l...

How do you deal with people you cant trust?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - How should one deal with people who you can't trust? I know this one guy that keeps saying things that I later find out aren't true. He comes up with excuses that can easily be seen through, and I know it isn't correct. When confronting him he gets ...

He doesn't open up about his problems, he doesn't tell me he loves me and he stares off into space....what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - why am i feeling so low with myself? im in a ldr for nearly 3 years and we are looking to be together for good this year, we spoke about it last year, but things have to be done to the house so we can all have a nice big room as we have kids from ...

I've liked him for two years but he is dating my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - well i have really liked this guy for more then 2 years and then i just found out like 3 mouths ago that my bestfriend likes him to, and now i dont know what to do because they are together... i have told him i liked him and he didnt want to screw ...

Now I have the chance to make my mothr proud

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Ive been talking to this guy for 3 months. He likes me a lot. I like him too.We have known eachother since the 5th grade. Hes 39 and single.hes been married once. Im 40 never been married but been in a relationship for the past 7years. He knows ...

Has he really got time for a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend (Julian) for three years on and off. when he finished with me in summer 2010 I started seeing someone else (steve) he'd give me money and lifts and generally looked after me, we only had sex three times. I then went to ...

Found videos of my girlfriend on the internet...should I tell her I've seen them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. We just started referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. A few days ago, I was looking at an adult video site and noticed a newly uploaded video was ...

I don't know what to make of him and I'm worried he might be playing me....what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I met this guy on an online dating site. We seemed to have an instant connection and decided to meet up. The first date went great and I know I shouldn't have but we slept together. After that we talked for a few weeks over text and then our ...

Girlfriend shows a lack of interest, yet wants to get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. In the beginning, things were great and we were really into each other. We would have sex often, and things couldn't have been better. Lately, I don't feel like she's into me anymore....

I cooked a special dinner for my boyfriend but he spent the entire time on the phone with another girl! Am I right to be mad about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of one year is from another country and talks from time to time about foods he misses that aren't common here. Thinking I would surprise him, I went out of my way to make a dish he had been reminiscing about. Since I'd never tasted it ...

My ex is spreading rumours that I'm stalking him and it's ruining my reputation! Will this blow over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - my ex is spreading around that im stalking him! His saying i drive by his house (yeah i have gone past he lives on the main street of the town!) he says i go out in the only club in my town because his there (the ONLY club!!) iv been told his seen ...

Bizzare excuses: am I just being paranoid or is he right that I have trust issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - How does a guy who has been sketchy react when you suddenly start being sketchy back? I have never played hard to get and may make it too easy when I like a guy. If we are dating and he wants to see me - I say yes at the drop of a dime. I don't li...

Crushes that don't go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I graduated from high school a few years ago. But the crush I've had on my ex-high school-teacher since junior year hasn't gone away. Is this something I should be concerned with? If so, how do I handle this? I'm slightly worried, I'm turning ...

My ex was sending very lewd texts to me but denies it....Did I handle this the right way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. Over my school's winter break, an ex of mine started texting me. Our relationship didn't end on good terms, and I didn't text back. He started sending sexual texts, each increasing in lewdness. After recieving a few of these, I texted ...

Am I being petty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He had a messy break up with his ex when him and I started dating. This ex of his caused both of us a lot of trouble. I felt especially affected by this because she would go around saying ...

One minute she is avoiding me, the next it seems like she still cares....what is going on with her? Is this behaviour because her father passed away? Or has she simply moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - I'm sure this question has been asked before, but I think everyone/every situation is different, so I'd like to ask it again. Last June, this girl (24) became very interested in me and, a month later, we were together. Not too many 1-on-1 dates at...

Should I cry until I can't cry anymore and eventually will just forget about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I've been in this ldr for almost 2 years. We met on a chatline and instantly connected! Every time me tried to meet up,something would always happen on both of our ends, so although we had never seen each other we did skype and video chat and send...