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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy on an online dating site. We seemed to have an instant connection and decided to meet up. The first date went great and I know I shouldn't have but we slept together. After that we talked for a few weeks over text and then our conversation got to be less often and then it just stopped. I tryed to start dating someone else and then he started talking to me a few weeks later and I dumped the other guy to be with him. He came and seen me one time a few weeks ago and now when I tell him I wanna see him he always has a reason why he can't. He tells me he loves me and that he wants to be with me but it doesn't seem like it to me. He goes days without texting me too. I don't know what to make of it. I think he may be playing me. I feel so dumb for putting up with this. Help!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 January 2012):
 yep he tells you what you want to hear and he is using you as a booty call...
I would as usual listen to Cerberus!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): Of course he is, you gave him sex and now he only comes back to you when he wants more. You know this OP, so you need to stop your heart convincing you that his lies are true.
Just let this guy go, he is playing with you and he's doing it really badly too but you're making this so easy for him.
OP next time you decide to date a guy, don't go anywhere intimate with him for the first few dates. You'd be surprized how many guys lose complete respect for a girl who is as easy as you were for him. A few messages online and you slept with him like. Why would any guy make an effort when you hand it to them on a plate? Now all he has to do is the minimum amount of effort and you will sleep with him.
Regain some dignity and get rid of this guy, you're not that desperate that you're going to let him play you like this are you?
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reader, bearN  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 I am very much into dating sites for long time. All I can say is guys have spoken to me their heart out of how much they long to be with me. How much they wish we were living closer or together. But, by the end of the day they VANISH. And then REAPPEAR again. What I usually do is. Don't linger much with the same guy. If I see he isn't taking much interest in me or showing mixed feelings. I just move on to the next guy an forget about him. If he is willing to come back and i find him responding better than the recent one. I stay with him. Its almost like I am juggling around. Finally now, I got the best guy in my life. I am happy to have him as a friend.
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