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Old feelings for ex are creeping back

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Question - (18 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend -well ex now- thought I was cheating on him with my guy friend because he and I talk a lot an stuff. I told my boyfriend that me and my friend aren't dating.

That's when he became distant with me, I knew he was mates with this girl who hated me and vice versa. He spoke to me less and started to get busier with "work". I thought okay. I'll I've him a little space..

A few weeks later, my guy friend tells me that my boyfriend is going out with that girl! I was devastated, because a few days before my friend told me, my boyfriend said he loved me. I asked him about it and asked if he was going out with her - he said no regardless of what others said.

I've broken up with him now, but old feelings are creeping back up. He said he's so sorry for hurting me and that he didn't mean to like sthe other girl.

He tells me he still loves me and if he wasn't with anyone he would really like to give us another chance. I told him I felt the same but he's with someone else and he wants to make it work with her.

I don't know how to deal with this, can someone please help..?

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A female reader, PunkyPippi United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

PunkyPippi agony auntHe already gave you his answer- he wants to make it work with the other girl. There's really nothing you can do about it.

This guy is a loser- he THOUGHT you were dating some other guy, so he conveniently started dating another girl? You're better off without him.

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