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I am hurt and confused. How should I feel about this?!

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Question - (18 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *arlgoo writes:

My girlfriend and I have been dating for five months. This week I was grounded and she was texting him and told him that she likes him but loves me?! He has a girlfriend and she initiated this with him. What should I do about this? I am hurt and confused. How should I feel about this?! Please help me

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A male reader, karlgoo United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

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karlgoo agony auntYep she has! 6 months we will have been dating on valentines day! :) Ty I got it all cleared up now lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009):

No one can tell you how you should or shouldn't feel about this.

The fact that she would admit to someone else that she still liked him when she was with you is a big warning sign for you.

I personally wouldn't leave her because of that but,

keep this in your mind, and keep your eye on her.

At this point in time, i would stop attaching yourself emotionally to her, until you can be sure that she will be dedicated to just you.

I'm not saying the relationship will end but it's something i would watch out for,

and if at all possible walk out, before you become the victim.

It's not the best answer but it's a start.

Good luck, and I hope she chooses to stay true to you.

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