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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'll get straight to it.I think I'm straight, I've only ever fancied girls and fallen in love with girls. Even now, I would never enter a proper relationship with a man.But...I want to have sex with a man. I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasies about being dominated by a man! I actually want to be dressed as a girl and be 'forced' to suck a cock and take it up the ass. Does this make me gay, or at least bi. I used to fantasise about women feminizing me, but recently its turned to men! I don't want to kiss men, but I want to be spanked and fucked by them!Recently, I have been replying to ads, and guys want to come to where I live and have me suck their cocks in a hidden place outside! Should I do it? I long to suck a cock but I think I might regret it later. I have been e-mailing guys, being submissive to them, and they want me to go over there and get used by them (another fantasy is to be used by men)Does all of this make me gay? I definitely don't fancy guys, I love girls! This is just a sexual fetish, but can someone sort this out and voice their opinions? I'm still a virgin, and it looks like my first sexual act will be with a man
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reader, sissybobbi  +, writes (12 July 2011):
Dear anonymous, I love dressing in women's clothes, and have for many years. I totally understand about not being interested in kissing a man, or being emotionally involved. Like you, I love women. I don't even really like men, but this fantasy has been with me for a good while. Maybe it will happen, maybe not. If it did, I don't think I'd regret it, as long as it was enjoyable and trouble free. I don't have any advice, just letting you know you're not alone.
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reader, Felina  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 Hi there!The human being feels the necessity to label evrerything and everyone...I think people feel more safe and organized when labeling everyone...Please dont be like that.Mhy must we be labbeled as bi,hetero or as gay?I believe all humans were created to be able to have sexual intercourse with both genders.I love sex,and I really love my bf,but I have had sex with some girls,and I really enjoyed it.
So dont be worried.Its pretty normal you fantasizing with other man.I think most man do,but only some dare to admit it.However,dont rush anything.Fantasies are pretty cool just as fantasies.When you feel ready to do it,then try it.
Dont feel guilty.I see myself as a mature and balanced girl,and I love man,but also feel very attracted to girls,just for sex and friendship,not for a relationship as I have with my boyfriend.
Dont labbel yourself.You are not an object,so youre not gay....Youre just a normal guy...
Did this help?Bye!
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