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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I know what I'm doing is wrong but I'm afraid of being alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - hey, im so fed up boys only want me for sex. before i had a boyfriend i had slept with 40 boys i know this is bad, and decided to change. i later met my ex boyfriend which i split up with 3 months ago. when i met him, i loved it and felt wan...

I cheated but feel no guilt...should I stay or should I go?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are having intimacy problems. We've been together for 5 years. It seems to me like things fizzled very early in our relationship. She is perfect in so many ways, but this is killing me. She's 28 and I'm 30. which means its almost ...

He asked me for a threesome but I'm insecure do you think I will benefit from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - First of all, I'm single since a couple of months. Now, an acquaintance of mine, a nice and funny guy who's been in a long-term relationship for several years, just asked me if I would be open to a sex experience with his girlfriend and possibly (if ...

Is he planning on being unfaithful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We have been quite stable except for the years that he was not interested in having sex with me. At the time I was upset and obviously thought of all different reasons for this. We had many arguments ...

He can keep going for an hour! That's too long for me....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - This isn't much of a problem but, the guy I am seeing can last for an hour even more with no signs of him cumming anytime soon. When we have sex he really goes to town and it's great he even makes sure to go down on me beforehand he's really ...

This guy is madly in love with me....but I have no idea who he is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4672 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Dear-cupid, From 2-3 days one guy is messaging me. I don't know who that guy is.When I asked him, he said that he came to my city for studies 6 months back ,he saw me and fell for me. I'm 16 years old. He is 17. He got my number from one of his ...

What is the best lubricant to use, specifically for anal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Does anyone have any tried and true recommendations for a personal lubricant that stays slippery longer other than K-Y (in the United States)? My partner and I really do not like that it gets sticky so quickly, and we have to re-lube so often...

Will it be possible to have sex and get married after a sex change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - Can a boy after sexchange converted to complete woman. After that can she fulfil her desire of being woman and establish sexual relation with another male friend and become his wife?...

Why are so many women so selfish? Even the great ones we love dearly!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your...

Should I care that she did sexual things with her best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - Even though this is a few weeks old i need help. My girlfriend who i have had for three months went over to her best friends house and they both swam naked in the pool and her friend "touched" her and when she told me this i asked. "Why did you let ...

How much porn is TOO much? Is my boy friend's need for Porn excessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Im usually cool with porn. I watch it myself several times a week and often browse naughty picture websites. I generally see it as not a big deal most the time. Sure, sometimes it upsets me and makes me feel bad but I understand those are MY ins...

He's slapped me during sex. Do I need to be concerned about this sort of behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Do men who like to slap women during sex have an anger issue? my boyfriend is a loving caring man but sometimes he likes to slap my backside which i don't mind during sex as i find it a turn on,but a couple of times he has just up and slapped me a...

Are these fears valid? I am afraid of my future husband's reaction in regards to my sexual history

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I feel so disgusted and upset with myself and I can't tell anyone. I turned 19 yesterday and have been on/off with a man who has narcissistic personality disorder for 5 years. He is a total jerk one day, super nice the next, it has always been lik...

Do I need to be concerned about this sort of behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Do men who like to slap women during sex have an anger issue,my boyfriend is a loving caring man but sometimes he likes to slap my backside which i don't mind during sex as i find it a turn on,but a couple of times he has just up and slapped me ...

Is cybersex cheating?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - I have a cybersex habit. I had it before I met my wife and I still have it. I have a very high sex drive and my wife just doesn't keep up with me by any stretch. To me it is just a step beyond jerking myself off. In fact, that's what it is. Some...