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writes:Can a boy after sexchange converted to complete woman. After that can she fulfil her desire of being woman and establish sexual relation with another male friend and become his wife? Reply to this Question
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (22 July 2011):
 I can't tell you that it will be as easy to do as anyone else. But when is falling in love ever easy to do? I've heard some transgendered people say that the first thing you do is tell them about yourself. If they care about you as a person they might stick around to find out more. But just be prepared for some rejection. You have to understand that most of the guys who approach you will not have that kind of an open mind enough to deal with that. But, it sounds as though you already knew that.
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reader, Odds +, writes (20 July 2011):
 Legally, it's a pretty gray area. Depends on whether the state really lets you re-define your gender in a legal sense, and even recognizes the union.
As a side note, I think the government should be removed from marriage entirely, leaving it up to the couples in question - straight, gay, tran, polygamous, whatever - with no involvement at all. Framing the debate as "should it be legal?" is very different from, "should the government even have the power to determine this?" Why should the legitimacy of a marriage be determined by the opinions of a bunch of lying politicians thousands of miles away?
Morally speaking, if you're going to marry and get into a sexual relationship with someone, they deserve the chance to give informed consent. Pretty much any man ever is going to consider the fact that a woman is trans to be relevant information to the "informed" part of consent. I don't think any good-faith argument can be made against the moral obligation to inform a man about trans status prior to sex.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 July 2011):
 Anatomically, it's possible to surgically alter the male organ into the semblance of a female vagina (without the working parts to make babies of course). I have no idea if you can become 'female' legally and legally marry a man after surgery. Interesting question. Anyone?
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