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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, im so fed up boys only want me for sex. before i had a boyfriend i had slept with 40 boys i know this is bad, and decided to change. i later met my ex boyfriend which i split up with 3 months ago. when i met him, i loved it and felt wanted not just used but then found out he was cheating on me. we then split. since then i have gone back to my old self and slept with 6 boys and had a three some. i know what im doing wrong but am so scared for being alone. i feel if i dont give them what they want ill be alone forever. please can anyone suggest anything that will make me resurre myself i ok by myself and dont need a boy ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): Stop, get professional counseling help now.
You don't do this, or feel this way, without a history of emotional/physical/psychological trauma. It just doesn't happen.
Stop dating, it will lead to more problems than benefits until you get to the bottom of this. Women who have this type of fear attract abusers and users.
If you don't get help, that number won't be 47, it will be 200, 300, or more, or you will be dead, and you will still be fearful, worried about being alone, and even afraid when with someone who loves you.
You are reacting to fears you have, and you need to figure out what they are, all of them, and manage your responses to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): The right guy will come along at some point, but if you don't stop your old ways now, the right guy will want nothing to do with you.
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