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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2016): Try not to squirm around in missionary when you're on the bottom. I know this is difficult as women when they are enjoying it and they tend to move and gyrate their hips in order to hit The Sweet Spot. However when I'm on top and I'm penetrating I want to go deep hard-and-fast inside of her. The more she moves and wiggles around the less likely it is to bring me to orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou've put my mind at ease. Thank you guys!
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reader, brooke0887  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 Most all men love when a women squirms, arches the back, moaning, ect... It turns them on even more and they know they are doing a good job ;) dont worry about it just focus on getting there and getting him there
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): i would like it
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reader, Mr Clark +, writes (11 April 2011):
Oh, I forgot to mention that your body movements don't sound "strange" at all to me from the way you've described them. Worrying about things like this will take the enjoyment out of sex.
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reader, Mr Clark +, writes (11 April 2011):
Bring on the extreme! Please!
I've never been bothered by a woman having too much reaction during an orgasm. But, I've been somewhat dissappointed at times if a woman has almost no outward signs of orgasm.
I guess it's possible there might be a man somewhat on this planet who will think it's too extreme, but it's not worth worrying about. As of right now, it has not actually been a problem for you in a relationship, so it's completely in your head at this point.
You can figure out how to deal with it if it ever is an issue. Every relationship has issues that need to be worked out. I highly doubt this would ever be more than an extremely minor issue, if that.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Extreme ?...Well, I was not there too see you of course , but what you say sounds pretty normal , in fact : arched back, strong pelvic floor spasms... I'd really would not worry about it. You are allowed to curl your toes, too :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers!
I know that's what happens during most orgasms for girls, but think I do it to an extreme, and anything that is too extreme is never good.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 If you now give you name and address, you will notice a line outside your front door, around the block of guys wanting to date you. Serously this is every guys dream for sex.Do you think we just want you to lay there, look up and say "about done?" helllllll noIf any guys tells you to stop or tone it down, let me know, and I with several guys from here will beat the crap out of him lol.Enjoy your body and you life, lifes tooo short for bs
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 That sounds normal, and I'm pretty sure seeing/feeling you orgasm is about the hottest thing you can do.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (9 April 2011):
A woman's orgasm is the applause a guy likes to hear during sex. And a standing ovation is the best thank-you a guy can receive. If you're having one, let us know as loudly as possible!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): we find those things extremely pleasurable and we like it very much.
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reader, GRIFF TANNEN +, writes (9 April 2011):
 Weird out the guys?! What are you talking about? That is totally awsome! Do you have any idea hot sexy that is???
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 Thats normal. Guys like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): I am a 33 yo man, and what you said is a HUGE turn on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Jesus that sounds pretty hot actually! Would love to see that happen when im with a girl actually ahaha!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 April 2011):
I think you'll find that most women in their moment of ecstasy find themselves rolling around or tensing! And no, it's not unattractive and weird or anything like that - actually it's pretty damned hot!
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (9 April 2011):
What you describe is totally normal and I don't see why it should turn off a guy, chances are they'll find it very exciting instead.
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