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writes: This question is for guys mainly. Recently I was making out with my bf when suddenly he started seriously touching me up and feeling my butt and boobs and went a little over board. Anyway I told him that he went a bit too far and he was really sorry about it. The thing I find weird is that he said he really couldn't help it and he felt he had no control at all. I trust that he didn't mean it. But I wanna know If when stuff like this happens if you guys really can't help it and if you really can't control it ?
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 As the saying goes, men have two brains but only enough blood to run one at a time. When he's horny enough, he'll think as clearly as if he were drunk. In time, with age and experience, he'll learn some control but yeah, it's easy to go too far. Sure we CAN control it, but it takes a while to learn how.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): It is difficult to stop when we get worked up, yes. But it is NEVER uncontrollable.
It is never okay to continue with something when the other person says to stop, no matter how far it has gone on.
A guy could be mid-coitus and a woman could ask him to stop (I would consider that extremely rude and unfair for a woman to be doing mid-coitus, but it still stands) and he must.
To do anything where the other person has not given consent or revoked it is rape.
At his age the hormones are running wild and it is perfectly reasonable that he is just not used to having to wrestle control of his libido in that way (especially now when his libido is at it's strongest). But let this be a lesson to him.
He must learn to master his desires and emotions or they control him and people get hurt.
Flynn 24
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 At your age (well, mostly any age!), men think with their lower brains, and only learn a LITTLE control as they mature.
It's up to you to put the brakes on if it isn't what you want.
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