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writes:my boyfriend wants to finger me, and i want him too but i hate the look of my vagina, i get spots on it and marks when i shave, i hate it, can you be fingered with trousers on?!!
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reader, Rose22  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 you can.. like the other people said if you wear loose enough trousers.. but i think the real issue here is how you feel about your body. when me and my boyfriend just started getting into that kind of stuff i was a nervous wreck! i thought he wouldnt like me down there.. i thought it horrible. but what you have to remind yourself is that if he respects you and loves you he isnt going to be thinking about a couple of spots! trust me! i worried bout the same thing.. and it all ended up with a lot of pointless worry as he couldnt care less on what it looked like it was all bout what he was doing!
so relax! take things slowly, through pants first if you want..thats what i did. it is possible.
have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Heck yes you can... all he needs to do is get his hand on your parts and he can finger away. I've been able to get my hand down several girls pants where we were making out in a car. I never saw their vagina, but got them off fine.
But seriously, your hangup with your body is something you need to resolve. Men love their woman's body. We just do. Odds are really good that your vagina is 100% normal (they vary a lot!)- I've never seen one I didn't like, and I've been with women with huge lips, and one that had none at all. My wife is pretty much in the middle, but I love her without concern for what her bits look like!
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reader, Abby98  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 I dont think so, maybe with panties/undies on. That may be possible. I'll ask my boyfriend about this.
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reader, youngmum89  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 yes you can get fingered with trousers on, wear loose trousers so its easier for him to put his hand down, i am the same as you when i shave i do get spots and,sometimes i do get a bit itchy but if your boyfriend loves you enough he wont mind that, i bet he doesnt look the like of his penis but he wouldn't be afraid to take his clothes off so you could pleasure him, be more confident with your body you's are eventually going to have full sex he's going to see your vagina then, you could even do it with the lights of if that makes you more comfortable
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): make a hole in your trouser so he can.or have him slide his hands under your trousers or just don't wear any trousers lol;)
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