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writes:okay so my family is really strict christian and since my dad died last year my mum has been really strict and protective of me. so last week my mum started telling me that i looked really pale and that i was putting on weight. I took no notice of it really but i started to eat more fruits and vegetables and i already started looking healthier. but the other day my mum asked me if i was pregnant and i said no of course not i havent even had sex yet. then yesterday she came home with a pregnancy test and asked me if i would take it despite my protesting that i hadnt even had sex she made me take it and for some reason it came back positive and despite the fact she told me before that it was okay if i was pregnant shes now kicked me out. so i went to stay at a friends (male since hes the only one i trust who lives close enough to my school) and ive been helping out with cooking and stuff since his mum is around but how can i convince my mum that im not pregnant and to let me back into my house????
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): Contact Social Services and explain that you have been abandoned and made homeless. They will be able to help you. They will find you a safe home and talk to your mother and sort things out for you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Are you sure you can't possibly be pregnant ?....
What you say , it's very strange. Close to impossible, I'd say.
Some times you can get false negatives, because the test fails to detect an early level of Beta-HCG ( pregnancy hormones )- but virtually never a false positive . In other words, the test can fail to detect a substance that's already there, - but can't add one that your body is not producing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 April 2011):
This is child abuse. Rather than try to convince her, report her to the police.
You must not EVER allow someone to treat you as disgustingly and as appallingly as this. Your mother is a total hypocrite!
Report her. Please don't accept this treatment from your mother.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 hi,
you visit the Doctor for a proper pregnancy test, and take your Mom along with you when you see the Doctor. If the Doctor can tell your Mom you are not pregnant that should satisfy your Mom, a Doctor can also tell if you are a virgin as well.
And get some Mom-daughter counselling
to improve your Relationship with each other.
Maybe then your Mom should realise that she over-reacted in the circumstances.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): I think the only way out of this is to take the pregnancy test, assuming of course that you genuinely aren't pregnant. If you are, I would suggest telling them beforehand and seeing whether they're willing to support you in any way. As implausible as it might sound, parents are usually much more forgiving than they say they will be when this kind of situation is suddenly presented to them. Good luck!
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