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writes:I've known this guy for a few years. We used to be 'friends with benefits', but then everybody found out, we both denied it like our lives depended on it, and then didn't speak for a while. Then last summer we started getting friendly, but nothing came of it. I liked him, but I thought he was just interested in sex, so I didn't say anything. I found out a few months later, that he liked me, too, but by then I'd gotten over it. Later on he got a girlfriend. I hadn't seen or spoken to him in almost a year, until a few nights ago when he sent me a text and popped up on msn. It was all innocent and fun, until last night, when he started asking inappropriate questions, asking me if I was interested in having sex with him, saying he wished he could take out his frustrations on me, and even asked me to send naked pictures of myself to him so he could at least get off to that.I kept reminding him he had a girlfriend, but his only response to that was that she could join in. I know it sounds like he's a pig, but he is a nice guy, he just turns into a wanker when he's horny.To make things worse, I think my old feelings for him are coming back. They were really strong, and I think they're back. Not as strong, but over the last few days of talking to him, I've noticed they're definitely lurking around. I just don't know what to do with him. Obviously I won't do anything with him, he has a girlfriend. But should I continue talking to him? Should I not? Should I be his friend? Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): You should not be talking to this guy he's a pig. I know plenty of guys have sexually fantasies but this guy is taking it to far he has a Girlfriend. Not to mention even suggesting that he wants sex when he has a gf is totally gross. I get you might have feelings for this guy but it's time to move on. Stop talking to him and he will probably stop pro-suing you. But if you keep talking to him he will just want you more and then you will come between him and his gf and you might think fooling around is bad but don't you think it looks worse to be a home wrecker?
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair +, writes (16 April 2011):
Talk to him but dont send him any pictures you need to trust him so have conversations so you can gain his trust and so he can gain your trust. If he wants to have sex with you then obviously he cannot do it while he is still with his girlfriend but just keep reminding him that. If you two become more than friends then thats your choice but keep reminding him he has a girlfriend if he really wants her to join in.... welll...... i dont know what else to say really Good luck xox
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