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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex? I can take it or leave it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 28 and sometimes i dont wanna have sex but i do anyway, dont want him cheating on me, thats why i do it and now we live together what should i do?...

Anal sex... to try or not to try...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - ok so I'm 19 and i never had anal sex. my hubby really wants to try it but I'm scared as i have heard its painful. what do u guys think? n i would appreaciate if u would tell me the ways to enjoy it without much pain for the first time!! thanks...

How do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My question is how do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse? A year and a half before we met he found out he had prostate cancer. He had it removed, and right before we met he had surgery/ inflatable prosthetic. ...

Questions on having a threesome!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Threesome or not? I would like some input on threesomes (or more). Do you regret it? Was the orgasm more mind blowing than being with a single partner? Was it worth it? Would you do it again? Did it cause trouble with your partner? ...

Help! What can I do to enjoy sex more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone, I'm a 19 year old female and me and my boyfriend have sex 2-3 times ever yday. i am not that into sex but i do it for him. he enjoys it a lot and i wanna enjoy it too but i dont know why i don't enjoy it that much. yea i kinda like it ...

Too tight for first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - A few months ago my ex boyfriend fingered me, and it felt really good. But afterwards he told me that maybe I should lose my virginity to someone else as he thought I was "too tight." For various reasons we decided to break up and now I'm with...

Baby and baby daddy and sex blues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - First question: hey evryone.im going to be brief asking this.im caught between three guys.one is my babydaddy but im dumping him.im done with him hurtn me.he askd me not to give up on us but ive held on too long.this ex's just came back in my life...

According to my boyfriend I'm too tight! What position can we do to make it better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - my bf says im too tight, can it be the position we usually use. what can i do?...

I only want men for sex, how do I seek out this kind of guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I'm a 22 year old bi male. I only have relationships with females, men are just for sex. I'm having trouble however, finding men to be just sex buddies. They want full out relationships, and I'm not at all interested. Any thoughts as to what I ...

I don't know how to behave whenever my boyfriend brings up sex!

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4 October 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts, So, this is a quick question. I do not have a clue how to behave whenever my boyfriend brings up something about making love and sex. W're having a long distance relationship so I understand how it feels not being able to meet in a reg...

Your sexuality can change over time during puberty, is this true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a 15 years old male, i have masturbated to gay porn since i knew and masturbated to straight porn a few times. after i finish to gay porn i usually feel bad inside, i have dreamt of having gay sex, but dreamt of having sex with a girl as ...

How do I improve my low libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i am 19yo and i have a low labito... i have a 10mth old baby and i have been with his father for 5 years now.... i love him a lot... and im attracted to him.... there are times when i really want to have sex with him.. but when it comes time to do ...

I want to lose my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I'm nearly 15 and I really want to give up my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend or know anyone that would want to have sex with me. What should I do?...

Do I masturbate too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Is it weird for a 14 year old girl to masterbate nearly every day?...

We have only been together for 8 months and I'm worried we are not having sex enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - This might seem like a strange question to ask, but I'm wondering if I have anything to worry about! Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months, spent nearly everyday together in that time. But the thing is our sex life had dwindled down to...

How to deal with a friendship/FWB gone wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I never thought this would be me. I never thought I would be in this type of situation, ever. Especially not with someone who I thought was my bestfriend. Me and my "bestfriend" had sort of a fwb thing going on while he had a girlfriend. This...

Guys, would you be reluctant to marry a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I'm 16, and never had a boyfriend before... I went to an all-girls school and have just started at a mixed college. A lot of the other girls I know are sleeping around and stuff. But I don't feel like I want anything like that. Hearing about ...

If he is not interested in me then why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy on and off for over two years now. We met on an online dating site but never met in person. In the beginning he seemed really interested in a relationship and he talked to me all the time.He would always tell me ...

How do I go about getting my girlfriend to try new things in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Do most women like exploring different sexual styles? I'm considering of doing different things in sex with my girlfriend. Like using toys, watching videos while having sex, fingering her, licking her, and having sex in different places like the car ...

Anal virgin needs advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Until this morning, I was an anal virgin. At the age of 33. Now my question is : what do I need to know if I'm going to allow this to happen again? Practical considerations? safety concerns? I enjoyed it - but what can I do to make it more enjoyable ...

Plans went awry and now I'm a bit confused and irritated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - 'Ello, Aunts and Uncles. I've got a bit of a conundrum for ya and I appreciate any advice offered. Honestly, I would like to see more male opinions on this than female. However, all advice is welcome, read, and appreciated, lovelies! :] I met a g...

How do I come about asking him to be in a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i met this guy in april. we had a strong connection but did nothing to act on it. we remained friends and kept in contact. last month, i was at an official event in his hometown which he knew about. we decided to visit. we went out the first night, ...

New to sex, what are good positions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex. I know she wants me to initiate it, but I am a virgin and don't know what positions will give her the most pleasure. She has had sex once before, and I want her to enjoy it more this time. Any r...