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Sex: Help and advice

Music to play during sex

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...

Vibrating Condoms/penis ring

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - Hello. Has anybody else tried vibrating condoms/penis rings and if so, do you think if they are worth the money?...

Relationships need sex to survive. What if you're a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Everybody is saying that relationship needs sex to survice. . Then i ask,what about bin a virgin til wedding day,doesn't it matter anymore?...

What does the average girl measure in fingers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 October 2010 (?) - I was wondring if an average guy is 6in. What is an average girl n male fingers? Also, what r the male veiws on the diff sizes? How dramatic is the dif. Btween a girl with and without kids?...

Ultra conservative girlfriend will not even make out now and its really very depressing to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - This is long, but please read. I really need some advice So my girlfriend and I recently, like 2-3 weeks ago, decided to finally start experimenting with sexual desires (ie handjobs and fingering) after 2 1/2 years of dating. Everything was g...

What can I do safely in bed with a condom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I've met a woman who's really crazy about me. She is not that attractive (OK for me though, she' intelligent, interesting and caring), but I am afraid that in order to get me into bed she may be ready to conceal some facts. She lost her head when ...

Why is hard during sex, but soft during oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hello.My boyfriend and i are living together for 3 years.My bf's penis is about 8' long but when i want to take it in my mouth it loses it's erection.During sex it's ok but during blowjob not.What can i do?...

How do you give good oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I'm not that experienced but I want to know how to give good oral to my boyfriend any tips on what I should do or how I should do it? ...

We have sex alot, but don't really have a connection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - My bf n i have been dating for abt 2 months now. Its more of a sexual relationship, than an emotional, though, there r still feelings, sometimes. Now, the problem, is tat, we have sex, a lot, bt we dont, realli have that conection. And im starting ...

My husband needs to clean up! Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost 19 years. We have no children and probably won't at this point since we are both in our 40's now. We have cats we love and adore so this kind of fills the parenthood gap for us. We are pretty happy and get ...

You can say its only sex for him but it still hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - after sleeping with someone and talking after the guy saying he wants to sleep and i messing around saying ill take a picture of u asleep and post it on fb which i was only messing but he replied no dont do that people might get the wrong idea I...

Was I good enough for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I really need ur help Ive liked this guy for ages hes single and yes i have slept with him a few times and saturday nite was about the 5th time and that was me staying at his house anyway when he got home late saturday nite he came into my be...

Is Lovemaking Needed for a Relationship to Survive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (?) - Is it necessary for a couple to be physically intimate for the relationship to survive?...

Up to now its been nothing but a smooch, but I want to tear his clothes from him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone Really hoping for some advice and reassurance. First some history. I split up with my ex husband 3 years ago, and apart from a fling right after the breakup (definate rebound fling) I havent slept with anyone since. Partly throug...

I am so angry he cheated on somebody with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - So i invited this guy from my college round for a party, by the end of the night it was just me and him, we spoke for ages and felt closer to him, which later led on to the most amazing sex i've ever had. a couple of nights after i went to talk to ...

He got mad when I wanted to chill out with a male friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - So I started talking to this guy on Facebook. And my homecoming was a week later, so I invited him to my college to see me for homecoming. He said he was coming, and surprisingly he did. My college is 5 hours away from where he lives, so I knew he ...

Judging one's sexual performance. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - A man I have been dating for a bit of time and I recently had sex for the first time. It was really great, in my opinion, and proved to me that it is indeed not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean. I didn't finish, but it felt awesome ...

How do I make my relationship with my boyfriend age apropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship with a boy tht is younger than me and all he can think about is sex, what do I do? I don't want just sex I want to cuddle hug be a cute couple together. Everytime I hug him he tries to touch me innapropriate I feel ...

Husband masturbates to porn videos but doesn't get an erection with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - My husband and me are both 27 years old.We been together for almost 6 years.for the last few months,he hasn't been able to get an erection.when is does,he only last about 2minutes before he non funtional.he says it has nothing to do with me.I was ...

Can't orgasm with boyfriend, tried EVERYTHING!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4945 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a 21 year old female. I'm healthy, fit, have a great sex drive.. my problem is i can't orgasm with my boyfriend.. whether it be during sex, oral sex, touching, ANYTHING.. but i can orgasm when i masturbate alone. I've always owned my ...

Iv complicated things. Now how do I break-up gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I met this guy a few years ago. He was married at the time and we got along well and stayed in touch casually, a coffee every so often but nothing more. He and his wife are now in the process of divorce with her making the move to leave him. He an...