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writes:I've enjoyd having sex with my boyfriend for quite a while but no matter what, i can not get to orgasm. I looked the g-spot up on the internet but if i stimulate that place all it makes me do is want to go to the loo. Is it suposed to be that annoying or am i just one of those women who cant get orgasms?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Ah, the magical G-spot. You are in the majority of women who do not reach orgasm through intercourse alone. The G-spot is an area in the vagina that when stimulated is supposed to give you wonderful orgasms. Well, that would be great if you were one of those women.
The anatomical analysis of the G-spot seems to suggest that it is part of the larger clitoral complex, the iceberg hidden underneath that little button called the clitoris. It's all very confusing and upsetting when you go into sex with the notion that you MUST orgasm from penile penetration alone, or there's something wrong with you.
I would suggest that you continue explore yourself but take the emphasis off penetration and see if exterior stimulation of your clitoris doesn't do the trick. I would also suggest that you buy a vibrator and experiment with that.
Here are a few links for you and your guy to read, maybe they will help you understand your anatomy better and with that knowledge, figure out what works best for you.
Good luck!
http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction
http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/your-guide-female-reproductive-system
http://men.webmd.com/features/6-sex-mistakes-men-make
There's nothing wrong with you, you aren't broken, you just haven't found what works for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): You found it - it does make you feel like you want to pea. It is in the v-canal - and it feels like a small round indention. There are 2 kinds of orgasms - vaginal or g-spot and cliteral. Cliteral is easier to stimualte it outsid. Vaginal is hader but more intense. Some women are genetically pre-disposed to orgasm more than others. That is a proven scientific study. However most women need to relax get out of there head and just feel, and enjoy - without feeling self conscience about how they look. My advice men get off no matter what you do. So have fun - trust me men do not care as long as you are naked. Focus on your pleasure and he will get off on that alone. Most women do not let go and just enjoy - so if you do you will be a much better lover right away. And you let go to enough to "O".
Of course saftey first and foremost - trusting your partner is key and feel comfortable. Have Fun -
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reader, blaidd_drwg  +, writes (20 May 2010):
Rubbing against the G spot does make you feel like you need the loo. Empty your bladder before sex and you should be fine. It may not feel like it when you start out, but persistant stimulation of you G spot will make you cum.
If full on penetration is too much for you get your partner to finger you, making sure you direct them to the right spot. This way they can start off just applying a small amount of pressure and build it up.
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