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*laidd_drwg
writes:I've just started a new relationship and the sex isnt exactly satisfying. I think it might partly be because of his size. He's very tall and though he's not fat he is quite chunky and wide. I like to be physically close to a guy when we are having sex. I like to put my arms around his neck and wrap my legs around his waist but he always goes for positions that dont allow full body contact,I think because he's a bit paranoid about crushing me. I've tried to pull him into more intermate positions but he never stays there long. If there are any big guys out there that know of any positions or tips that could help I would be very great full, Carly x
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reader, sara__m  +, writes (21 May 2010):
climb on top of him and lay forward on his chest and have him wrap his arms around u. this way your bodies are close, you can still "thrust" your self on him , I'm sure you know how. lol, and yal can kiss and all
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reader, blaidd_drwg +, writes (20 May 2010):
blaidd_drwg is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the ideas guys, I'm going to have a chat with him and see how things go x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): i had the same problms with my boyfriend of 4 years ... the best way is to be on top laying down or sitting
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): You can try going on top, that way you can touch him as much as you want, lean down to kiss hi, etc
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I think the best thing you could do here is to talk to him about your concerns - if he realizes that you want to try other positions and that you're not worried at all by him crushing you or anything, perhaps he will relax a little more and be able to satisfy you in a way that gives more contact and closeness for you both.
He may be a little self conscious?
Have you tried being on top, front facing on top, standing up? sitting on a sideboard or counter top? That could give a similar closeness without him being physically on top of you but in a similar position.
Talk to him, you might be surprised :)
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