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I can't squirt now!

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Question - (15 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2008)
A female Australia age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi i have a quick question about female ejaculation.

i am 18 and used to be able to 'squirt' and i did it once for my now ex boyfriend and his reaction was that of disgust even tho he said he thought it was hot, he said he didnt expect anywhere near as much fluid and he just stood back. ever since then i havent been able to do it. im currently seeing a new guy and no matter how much he tries and i try i cant do it, and i really want to show him. he suggested i may be thinking about it too much and trying too hard. and suggested i practice at home to see if i can get it again.

any suggestions as to what works best or why i may have lost this beautiful and pleasurable ability? (P.S no sex toys i dont use them, thanks)

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A female reader, Ravenxx91 United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2008):

Ravenxx91 agony auntI would sugest to relax in your own time at home and try to do what you used to. But dont plan it just do it randomly and see what happens x

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A female reader, SDJ United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2008):

SDJ agony auntThis reminds me of the time my boyfriend couldn't get an erection for a while because he was thinking too much and when he'd go soft because he'd be thinking about how annoying putting the condom on was. I think you're either thinking to much about it or it's in your head; by this I mean that maybe you're thinking a lot about that reaction of 'disgust' your ex boyfriend gave you. That was only probably because he'd never seen anything like it before, if anything he should've been pleased he pleasured you enough to get to that point. I think it's a skill. It may also because you aren't feeling that comfortable with this new person or maybe your putting too much pressure on yourself to do it. You should just settle down and calm yourself, it should come naturally.

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