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Archived questions from: 20 April, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Recently my wife has been very cold with me and I'm paranoid she may be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - hi, I need some advice as I feel paranoid and depressed at the moment. I am in a LDR with my wife of 5.5 years... we've been living apart for the past 2.5 years. She's been recently very cold to me... never says anything nice or writes nice emai...

How do I let him know that he really hurts me by not letting past go...?

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20 April 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for year and a half now. I'm 5 months pregnant. His exwife passed away 6 years ago and he has a six year old boy - who's I am a Mom now. I am not sure how to talk to my husband about giving some of ex wife's ...

How do I ask without making him angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - me and my husband have been together 8 years and i need to talk to him about our relationship but every time i do, he always thinks that he is in trouble. i want to ask him if there is something going on with someone else. how do i ask without ...

Should I trust that he was just curious or is it more than that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - ok so i need help. I went through my husbands phone, i know it was wrong, but i looked in his history of his internet on there and found that he had an account with ashley madison ( for those of you who don't know what it is it is an online ...

It bothers me that my husband chats on the phone with a single woman.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My husband has a job that is very boring and he is allowed to chat on his cell phone. A month ago he complained that I don't talk to him enough so he has to talk to "Rebecca". At the time, a month ago, we established the fact that he and Rebecca ...

Why does he always prefer porn to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I have been married to my 2nd husband now going on 18 years. In the beginning of the relationship we had a great sexual yearning for each other. We lived together for 2 years prior to marrying so 20 years altogether. This started about the year of ...

Husband wants a threesome with me acting as a lesbian..I don't want it1

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My Husband wants to experience threesome..... My husband is been forcing me or convincing me to go for threesome with him. His fantasy is to see with with a girl. He wants me to be lesbian and make out with a any girl. I am not just not comfort...

There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you can move on

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Dear all, For those who think there is no light at the end of the tunnel read this. A year and a half ago i found out my husband of 21 years had been cheating on me not once but several times thoughout our marriage,i found out lots of things i...

I "need" a second lover!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Hi! I've got a family and I like sex very much. I don't know how to do. I would really like a second love. My wife is really fat and things are so difficuclt that I can't enjoy having sex with her any more. I don't want to dump her because we've ...

Why is my husband stingy with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am married in about a year already. I am in a totaly new place and have known only a couple of friends. I had a job before but I quit when I got married and relocate to my husbands place. I had no jog for almost 8 mos, and now I just started a ...

4 months into marriage and already unhappy in SoCal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - UNHAPPY IN SO CAL:~( I have been married for 4 months now and I think that there is somthing wrong with me because I just hate having sex with my husband. I have never been attracted to him but I thought I would still want to make love to/with ...

How do you get over someone cheating on you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Help how do you get over someone cheating on you. My huusband and I have been married 10years and we have one son. He has always been someone that needs alot of time alone and gets grumpy if he feels over crowded. Latley he has been even worse ...

I am pregnant and received a phone call saying my husband is cheating on me... with my NEPHEW!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband for 7 years now and am pregnant; a few weeks ago I got a phone call saying that he was having an affair with my nephew. My nephew's 18 years old, my husband's 35. I also found out that my husband was spending way too...