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writes: My girlfriend and I fortunatley overcame our first problem of age. She is 22 and iam 19 and we met at University. We are really in love and are considering marriage now we have been together for a long time. It is not ourselves which have thrown up the problem it is our situation. She will possibly be finishing education this year and will go out 2 work while I will just be finsihing the first year of my degree. She also lives in Paris and I near London however, there we are both willing to make a change. But how can I for example afford a place for ourselves without a job. Do i quit uni? but I feel her parents will not like me then for example as she is finshing her masters and I can imagine she would not want that! If we live seperately while i finish the realtionship may not last 2 years.There needs to be a soloution I will do anything in order to make it work it would be stupid to break up ova this it is the best relationship we have eva had and everything is perfect. We are worried about it now because we care so much otherwise we wud just get on with it. Would really appreciate peoples views on this. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): stay at uni and when ever your on hoilday go an visit or she can visit you thats to be on the safe side cos you dnt want to throw away everything on something that might not last i learned my mistake the hard way
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): Listen to Manu Chao's Le Rendezvous before making your mind!
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reader, Joe  +, writes (3 January 2006):
well if you two love each other as much as you say then it will last two years so carry on with your course, try not to over excert yourself but IF and only IF you can try get a part time job, get a place to rent i know london is expensive because i live there, and if she is just as worried as you she will then come over to the uk and find a well paid job over here and slowly but surely things may start getting better.
it will start most likly as nightmare with everything being thrown at you two but if the relationship is as strong as you feel it is then it will work
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