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writes: Hi, I am really confused and do not know what to do. My boyfriend and me have been friends for 5 years and been dating for almost a year. He wants to join the airforce and I really do not know what to do. I do not want him to leave because I do not know if I could handle being away from him that long. I have been in long distance relationships before but the guy usually never trusted me and tried to control me. In this relationiship I trust him a lot since we have been friends I just don't know what to do. I already told him I really don't want him to go. I was wondering if anyone else has been through this same situation and what they have done and how I could deal with this. I know I should stay with him while he is training but I am scared it's going to be a slap in my face and he is going to come back and be completly different. Can someone help me?
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (10 January 2006):
darling, of course he is going to come back a different person. he will be tougher,more confident, less insecure about life in general and a good all round egg.The training he gets will turn him from boy to man and that can only be good for you.If you have a strong and loving relationship then he will return to you completely different but also someone who will be the rock you have always wanted.Try not to worry about things that may not happen as you feel and be ready to enjoy a great time with a new man that the Air Force turns him into.
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