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Is my Bf's technique the cause of the pain I feel after sex? What needs to change?

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Question - (15 December 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

When my partner uses his finger (we don't use toys or penis) on me, even when I'm really lubricated and it feels good, it sometimes feels a little torn when I use the bathroom once or twice in the few hours after.

It doesn't usually hurt during, but I'm not sure why it sometimes is sore afterwards?? We are each others first and only. I think it may be angles becauseit only seems to happen when I'm bent over. I just don't know why it's sore after sometimes if it feels good during and I'm really lubricated??

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (15 December 2015):

Honeypie agony auntCold be his nails are actually scratching you or a cuticle is snagging your skin inside the vagina. Or it can be that his fingers aren't exactly clean and then leaves germs that annoys your insides. It can also be that he is rubbing a spot too much and while lubricated it doesn't feel bad, but afterwards it can.

Or... if he did scratch you inside and you aren't healed up for the next "session" he is making it worse.

So maybe tell him to give the INSIDE a break for a while and stick to the clitoris.

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