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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidIt's embarrassing to even say it but i completely suck when it comes to sex, I can't do anything. Had two long relationship, one with ex bf who didn't care much and we hardly had any and everytime I just lie down and he will do his job and go. Next with my ex husband who is really bad in that dept, so we really had much.Now I'm dating a nice sexy guy, I like him though I'm sure he is not the one but would like to have sex with him, went for 3 dates and he is hinting v strongly that he would like to make love to me, but I'm so bad at it, scared that he won't like it. I can talk, flirt and even do dirty talk but when it comes to really doing, it's like I'm clumsy, don't know what to say or do and self conscious....Thinking about going for sex therapist, or sex couch. Will it work? Is it worth. Please please help me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 December 2015):
 I honestly think the best thing to do is just go and have fun with the guy, you don't see it as turning in to a serious relationship so just relax and enjoy the experience. I think everyone has concerns when they are being intimate with people, but they just need to let go and try new things. Maybe suggest to him something you would like to try but tell him you are a bit shy and get him to lead the way. Good luck.
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