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writes:dear cupids,i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up.now i am eager to meet up with a lesbian, i expressed my needs to a friend and he happen's to know a bisexual female so he's kind of hooking us up together.the thing is he knows her from an application, so i don't trust her. the other thing is i never did sex for pleasure, i did it for love, i loved my boyfriend and wanted to feel him.even though i am very excited to try kissing a female and actually touching boobs and stuff, i am afraid of the possibility that this move is not wise or healthy.will it be healthy to experience sex with a female?is a one-night stand relationship recommended in my case?thank you
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reader, ladyInLove2 +, writes (28 December 2015):
ladyInLove2 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much i will keep you updated should any meeting occur :)
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (28 December 2015):
It is fine to text, e-mail or share a phone call before meeting. But you really want to meet her before committing to sex. It would even be a good thing to hang out together for a few afternoons before having sex. Much of the fun in sex comes from the excitement of anticipation and knowing your partner.
I'm here in the USA and we are fairly open about exposing our sexual desires to people of like desires. When it comes to same-sex relationships, I'm sure there are cultural differences between the USA and Lebanon. So I can see why you are hesitant to have contact in a way that is documented. Keep in mind that the same fears are probably going thru her head as well as yours.
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reader, ladyInLove2 +, writes (28 December 2015):
ladyInLove2 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Dear Been there Now over it,
thank you for answering, he met her through the application whisper, he whispered about wanting to help me and a girl volunteered. you are right i need to meet her, but the meeting itself needs some sort of trust from my behalf because saying that i am not sure whether i like men or women is exposing a big deal about myself to a total stranger.
my friend suggested texting before meeting but i think that would expose me even harder because she can save our conversations or something.
do you think it would be a better idea if we texted before meeting?
thank you
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (28 December 2015):
Lots of women have casual sex with other females without having any problems develop. You say that your friend knows this woman thru "an application." An application here in the USA ordinarily refers to a job application but I'm not sure if that's the case here. Anyway, the most important part of your question is that you "don't trust her." I suggest waiting for someone you do trust and who has the same expectations as you in regard to whether you are or aren't looking for a relationship. You should also meet the woman before committing to having sex with her. She may be unclean or not to your liking. If you are comfortable after doing your research, go ahead and have fun...it will be a much better experience. You will always be wondering about being with another woman if you never try it.Please note that there may be cultural differences (between USA and Lebanon) regarding this situation that I'm not aware of.
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