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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How do I stop being in love with a married man????????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I met a guy through work, he has his own company and so do I. We ended up meeting on a business trip two years ago and the affair started. He chased me and broke me down until I couldn't resist him any more. It was not about sex as we had many ...

My friends at uni are "scoring" and I'm not. It's starting to affect my confidence. Can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm in my first year of university. I'm quite enjoying my time here, but there is something troubling me. I keep hearing all these stories of my friends going out and "scoring" with women. I'm quite an outgoing person, but I've been out ...

I've been holding back too much, I want to let myself go and show how I truly feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - There's someone who i really like at my college. The first time i saw his face there was this instant attraction, and finally after a few weeks we began talking and are now pretty good friends. He does know how i feel about him because i told him ...

My friend wants to learn to kiss with me but I'm not a lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My friend has recently told me that she doesnt know how to kiss,, She has never kissed a boy before and is now in a relationship,, And now today she text me on my phone asking me if i could help her,, So i said yeah sure what do you want...

I'm 13, he's only 10, so should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Ok sooo i think i like this boy but there is a problemo, im 13 nd he iss 10!!! ino i feel so disgusted in myslef that i could fall for some one at that age! But i know that he likes me to!! should i tell him how i feel or should i forget about him, ...

Is he friendly or flirty? What should I think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm looking for some "outside" opinions on this. I have a person I know who is in most of my classes. I'm in post secondary school. We met when we came to school and have remained aqaintences ever since. He sometimes seems to be flirting or ...

He is also gay, I thought he liked me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - hey, im 14 and gay. one of my classmates is gay too and i have a crush on him (we confessed to each other that we're gay). we were talking about getting together and stuff, but suddenly on one day he said he's going to meet someone else. what's ...

The girl I like wants to sleep around just to make her ex angry, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - So last night i was talking to the girl ive been talking to we dont date because she is still in the process of getting over her ex that she went out with for 3 years and hes come up frequenty in conversations, this girl has alreayd told me i mean a ...

Why did he call me after all this time? I'm worried he won't call again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hey! Im 19 year old girl and my situation is this...i used to work in hotel with this one guy and i really fancied him and at the time i thought he fancied me too but nothing ever happened so i left work to go to university. I havent seen or heard ...

To scenarios to enable me to talk with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I really need help! I like this girl and she likes me. When we are at school she's often quiet. I want to be able to talk to her. I want to use the time and just talk. Do I walk up to her and just start talking? Would that make her comfortable?? I ...

I've given up on finding love.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I've given up on finding love. I feel like love is a really special thing that everyone is entitled to, however it seems that it's just not meant for me. I've become really cynical and find myself avoiding all my friends who have significant ...

I have a boyfriend but have a crush on someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl who has had a crush on a guy 2 years older than me for a few months now. At the same time I still feel strongly about my boyfriend. Unfortunately I'm not sure if he feels the same anymore. If things are to die with my curr...

Her ex popped up just as I was leaving. I find this difficult to handle.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I recently spent the night with my girlfriend to celebrate valentines. The next morning I left to go home and an ex she had intimate relations with dropped by to use the restroom. I had a real issue with it and he knew she was seeing someone. So she ...

I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...

How can I keep the noise down during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - This is a little daft asking I think but here goes... I live in uni halls, a block of 16, and our walls are very thin. Last time my boyfriend came over to stay the night my next door neighbour made a joke about being able to hear everything through ...

Tormented because my skin is too black.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am slim, tall, and I think I am pretty enough in my face. But I have very very very dark skin and in my country this is not a good thing. It affects your life badly, I will not have marriage proposals or the ones I do get will not be good offers. ...

Should we slow it right down and just date for a while and see what happens? Someone help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I came out of a long term relationship and after 5 weeks I met Lucy. She had come out of a 9 year marriage just 4 months before. Her husband walked out on her and her son. We hit it off straight away and the chemistry was electric. We did...

Does this mean that he really does want me for me, that he doesn't just want me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - A few years ago, I worked with a guy for a few months and I didn't really think anything of it. I went on a night out and bumped into him, we ended up going back to his place and I spent the night with him and had sex, we were both drunk. This...

I'm having sexual thoughts about my mate's MOM!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hi there, I don't know how to say this but I have sexual thoughts about my friend's fat mum. Should I try something with her or what or is that wrong??...

My room mate also happens to be my ex husband and my boyfriend finds that difficult...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have an interesting situation in my life, and not sure how to help my boyfriend understand it. I have a roommate - who also happens to be my ex hubby. I AM divorced from him. We have been the best of friends since we were 16 (both in our mid to ...

We don't trust each other with our friends, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My guy is of the feeling that his best friend likes me..This has created some kind of misunderstanding in between us.No proper understanding:(:(However I am very sure that there is nothing like what he thinks.We even had a talk on this.The reas...

Told my friend he only liked me as a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hi, this is my situation: My friend sent a message to my crush/guy friend asking him how he felt about me. He didn't answer. So she told me to ask him directly on msn. I did and he said he only sees me as a friend. So I'm really confused because ...

Was I in some way wrong? Follw up to my question

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - My mother is diagnosed of a fatal disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been ...

I never wanted a relationship with him! Why do I feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My "friend with benefits" recently told me that he had met someone who he thinks he could have a future with and doesn't want to mess it up by fooling around with me. Initially I was happy for him and dropped the "benefits" part of our friendship ...

My b/f? Or my good friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have no idea what to do! I mean i'm only 14 and i have a boyfriend in Nicaragua who told me he loves me (which i doubt sometimes) and a really good friend...and he told me he loved me...i have no idea what to do! I have a feeling that i love them ...

He is the PERFECTEST guy ever but my parents would shoot me, but I'm really not caring, and I just want to be with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and I've been talking to this 19 year old, I'm a freshman and he graduated last year. He always says how much he likes me and he wants to be with me, and ive had sex with him. He bought me a phone so i can text him, and he is paying ...

Would you forgive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting ...

Does this mean I am bisexual and if so am I normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - 2 weeks ago i met this girl that looked like a boy. i felt attracted to her then when i found out she was a girl i still liked her. she started to feel my legs and writing me note and i wrote them back, then one day after school we kissed I liked ...

What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand. It's just... his hands are so masculine, and I just want to know their feeling. Plus, I think he might like my hands as well (they're small and soft)... I feel like this sort of ...

How can I let this older man know I'm interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hiya, I'm 18, I live alone and have a daughter age 2, I know a man from working at my uncles gym he lives a couple of doors away from me, well I really really like him and got feeling for him that I have never felt before, he's a lot older than me ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I let his friend finger me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my ...

What should I do? I don't know how to tell him I have some what feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I met this guy and we've been talking for a couple weeks now. He seems like the perfect guy but people have said he's majorly prude, and very shy. But he's so hot and cute and we seem like we click. We get along very well. But I don't know how to ...

Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...