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Archived questions from: 1 February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Do you think that it is probable that I could simply be a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Hi. There's this girl who I've liked, but I've never really done anything about it until recently when I started hanging out with her more. She just broke up with her BF, and she seems to like me too, but I'm worried that I could just be a rebound ...

Letting go of seductive teacher - please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a huge problem that has taken over my life, and I'm looking for advice on how to LET GO. I'll try to not make this too long. Basically, I have a female teacher(single, 40s) who I have finally realized is d...

My boyfriend lectured me on my lack of experience with clubs.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hello. I guess this is probably not a very important queston but it's made me feel uncomfortable and pressured to change. Ok last Friday me and my bf went out clubbing. We had a quiet drink on our own first at a pub then met my mates in the nex...

I know he still has feelings for me but I just don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - So last summer I met this guy, we started off friends but I kinda had an idea that he liked me. We started to hang out and I really started to develop feelings for him. We started to text every day and were acting like a couple, practically going ...

What does a "goer" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - My friends the other day at college where on about this girl, who just started in our class, they said she was a bit of a goer, what does a goer mean ive never heard of it?...

He needs to realize that if he keeps acting this way, he'll lose me and his friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I'm in love. I've been with this boy about 4 months and i'm sure its the real deal. The only thing is i've done alot to make this work including fighting with my mom..[she doesn't approve of him] why? because of his ways. we fight, break up and then ...

Feeling left out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I am a very social person. I love people. My feelings are always hurt when I am left out of a party or get-together. I have a couple who are good friends of mine. I am pretty sure that they consider me a good friend also. I have done lots o...

Me, best friend & crush triangle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - For about 8 months now i have felt very strongly towards a guy who is also one of my best mates. Recently people have been saying that he likes me too but doesnt know if it is as a good friend or a girlfriend. However my best friend just said that ...

I want a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - im 17 havnt had a boyfreind since i was 14. im attractive even if i do say so myself but the thing is men or boys dont seem to be intrested thy treat me like one of the boys we have a laugh ect. im allways myself around boys/men.. bubb...

I didn't want him to know how I felt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I've fancied my flatmate ever since we met but I've been doing the right thing and just keeping my distance because we're flatmates and we have to live together. We have a very close relationship regardless, and we always have drinks together in ...

Is it normal to have a bad attitude when you have been treated badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - i wish to be happier but I find it hard to trust people as I have had many friends and boyfriends bertay my trust. I still am a happy girl inside but recently I have become very negative because people treat me awfully sometimes (i am patient too) ....

Could they be sleeping together but not letting on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - i have this female so called mate who always sleeps in my best friends house.. (i like him in that way) he insists she stays in another bed..but shes up there everyyy weekend. I have been told I am much better looking than her and have LOTS more t...

He says the hugs he gives to other girls are just friendly hugs but I can't help being jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now but he is always hugging other girls at my school, and when I talk to him about it he say's they're just friendly hugs and don't mean anything, but I can't help feeling jealous? What should I do ?...

An unlikely pairing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Is it possible to fall in love with someone even if you really don't fancy them? I have started a relationship with someone, but can't get over the fact that I don't fancy him and feel uncomfortable about it. We are an excellent match in many ot...

I just wish he could quit thinking his friends are the coolest things around and can do whatever the heck they want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I don't even know what's going on. I was complaining about a friend of my boyfriend's trying to charge me more for something than he really needed to. My boyfriend told him something different that was lower and he was fine with it. So, he was just ...

How do I tell a friend that I don't fancy him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hi Andrew, I have a question that needs a rapid answer to prevent a good friend getting hurt. How can I tell him I don't fancy him?.... I recently joined a dating agency, which was based on compatability and without pictures. I was abo...

How can I make valentine's day special for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - i'm planning to stay round this girls halls at uni day on 13th and 14th. We are good friends. The dates were a coincidence, i just set the day of the week and just realised now its valentines day on 14th. She broke up with her bf nearly half a year ...

I really like him but he said he has fantasies about being with boys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, Sorry, this will be a little long. I'm in a dilemma. I've to tell the whole story to make the situation clear. I'm a 25 years old girl. I met a guy around 30 years of age at my workplace. I soon fell in love with him...

How can I test the waters?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - I'm inviting a very close female friend to my flat soon. Plan is she'll stay night here, we'll be drinkin and catchin up on things as i'm at uni far and never see her. I would like to initiate something physical with her that night, i'm not even ...

If he liked me, wouldn't he contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I like my good friend Sarahs brother Jack. Last week sarah invited me to a family party. Her brother and his friend were there and we all had a great time, me and Jack took tons of pics together. We were all drunken and ended up back at Jacks. His ...

I want to be in a relationship with him but he's emotionally abusive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - How do you let go of someone who you care about so much and possibly even love despite the fact that they treat you not right sometimes? I have a friend, who wants to be in a relationship with me and I want to be in one with him too, however, Iv...

I have no network of friends he's conquered them all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I've been thinking of leaving my boyfriend for about a year, but I feel completely lost and helpless. We've been together for three years, but I feel like most of the time he has been emotionally and psychologically abusive. At the beginning of ...

Is this a phase like I went through? Will my ex come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend "Jake" and I started dating three years ago. Before we started dating I learned that he dealt with depression. He would drink occasionally and frequently smoke pot. He wasn't a partier, but enjoyed having a good time with his ...

The big question is... Is he interested in me????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Whenever I look at him, he stares right back at me. We give each other long stares and when I look away, so does he. Is he interested in me?...

Yesterday the girl I've been crushing on since I met broke up with her boyfriened. Is it to soon to ask her to go on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Hi. Well today my girlfriend just broke up with me. Yesterday the girl I've been crushing on since I met broke up with her boyfriened. Is it to soon to ask her to go on a date?...

She broke up with me but her best mates and sister, seem to think that she will get back with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - It all started in secondary school. A girl who I was very fond of, asked me out after months of flirting. Stupidly I said no. I said no because I was afraid, and scared, after all she is in the year above. But during my final year of secondary ...

Is it too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - It's always been so hard to decide what I should give for the boy I like on Valentines day. Well here's what I'm planning : - pre-made t-shirt that says "You dance to the beat of my heart" (because we dance together) - a tiny teddy bear hugging ...

He thinks of me only as a friend. Is there anything I can do to change that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I really like this guy. He is a friend from church and I have hung with him a while and went to dinner. Then the next day my dad was in the hospital and he came over to comfort me. He is a really good friend and I really like him. But he thinks of ...

What should I tell him? I still want his attention..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I met, he lives with my friend and I went over to their house. The guy asked for a kiss and I told him that I shouldnt cause I just got out of bad relationship. Then, we had more drinks and he tried again and this time I ...