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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

The clubbing scene.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Soooo, I'm 16 and I would like to try clubbing. There is a 16 year old club close to where I live, and I'm thinking about trying it. See the thing is, I'm kinda afraid. I WANT to live life though. I want to experience. I'm afraid that the persoon ...

Did I take my jesting too far with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) - My girlfriend and I went to this pool party (I live in Australia) with some our friends. My girlfriend never let me see her breasts (because of a scar on one) and she thinks it might turn me off. Anyway we were in the pool making out until my very ...

My crush didn't wish me happy birthday or come to my party. Any ideas why not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hay.. I have a crush on my school mate. We're both 18 and I have always suspected that he likes me too even before this crush started. But now I'm confused because he didn't even say me happy birthday or come to the party, even when he saw everyone...

In love with an ambiguous friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hello everybody, Let me start by admitting my problem: I usually fall for straight guys. Usually is only physical attraction but on a few occasions it's been more than that. In fact a couple of years ago I fell in love with a guy at work who knew...

She always makes quotes when she emails me, am I over analysing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - The girl I like includes quotes when she emails me sometimes. Her latest got me thinking: "If you make it plain you like people, it's hard for them to resist liking you back." Am I over-analysing now?...

I am not asking for perfection, just acknowledgement of my presence, my feelings, and the wish to be held or kissed once a day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I am married, 14 years to a man I have known since I am a child. Since having children, there have been many times I have felt he had been unfaithful through the years. I have never had proof - (to me would be seeing him with a woman, or havin...

I really like him but he likes my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hey I need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and I've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and I'm not sure if ...

Do guys find nose piercings attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hey :) Was just wondering if guys found nose piercings attractive? My friend is worrying about it at the moment as she is thinking of getting it done. Thanks x...

I don’t want to make a move and end up ruining our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - I've recently been getting closer to this girl I met at school. We have known each other for about 5 months now and for the past 2 months we have spent a LOT of time together. She has a boyfriend of 2 years and up until a week ago I thought that ...

He texted that he didn't like me but I like him, he ignores me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - ALright so this there is this guy and i used my friends phone to text him and i said 'do you like(then i said my name)' and he texted back and said no and we were kind of friends before but now he won't even look at me in the hall or return my texts ...

I gave her a gift, she rejected it, now I don't know how to respond, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - hey i gave the girl who is kind of really good mate a snow patrol ticket for her to go with me she rejected it and said it was too much n she was really sorry but i work with her weekly so i dont know how to react next time we speak.. should i bring ...

I have no idea how to approach, converse and get numbers...please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hey guys. Im not sure where to start so ill give some background and the problems. When I was younger (8-10) I missed a couple of years of school as I had to take care of my little sister. This was due to my mum having a drink problem. This me...

How can our friendship go back to the way it was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Can a man and woman return to being friends after flirting? Let me be more specific - this guy and I have been flirting back and forth since last summer, culminating to when I was home for Christmas (gazing into my eyes, lots of eye contact, smi...

How can I find out if she's really bi and if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Im 15, and I think I'm in love with one of my best friends. We havnt been friends for that long, but i cant stop thinking about her. Im openly bi around my friends (only my brother knows in my family) , and she says that she is bi too, but i dont ...

I love my cousin but she rejected me, how can we stay friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hello. Guys . This is about me and my cousin. She is 15 . Im 19. Things are like, this started 2 years back. This cousin of mine and me is too close. More than just cousins. We used to talk for hours, we used to hold hands, she used to rest on ...

How to be single and happy when all around you are couples?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Over the last year or so i've changed in some ways and i'm not sure exactly how. A relationship ended over a year ago has resulted me a feeling for a need to change myself in order to become more successful with men, basically to find and keep a ...

How does she feel, is she just being friendly or does she want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - This girl I know has a massive hang-up with her ex bf, he dumped her and she still isnt over it even though it was about 6 months ago. since then we've got to know each other really well and become really close friends she says alot that im the only ...

Is it any wonder I've changed after what I've been through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - heyyy, A couple of months ago I got in to some serious trouble with social services and the police for underage sex with my bf (i felt ready to do it, he's 15 nearly 16 now) I told my friends some VERY personal infomation about it because I ne...

My former crush who I still like wants to date me but I'm seeing another boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay, so Ive known this guy for a year now. We went out but that was a long time ago. We have become really really close and we tell eachother everything and we help eachother. He means everything to me. He is like a brother to me. Well yeah, so we ...

Is this woman in the office indirectly trying to attract my attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hello. Just a quick question if I may about office behaviour from women. I've got a big crush on this very special woman at work - we smile at each other alot (broad - not fake.......we're talking real crow's feet around the eyes type smiles here!) ...

My crush makes me confused, your comments please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - there's this guy i've known for about 4 months now whom i have a crush on.. here are some facts that just confuses me too much. 1. i caught him staring at me so many times. 2. he cares about my feelings. im not sure but that might be his person...

My friends have problems accepting my sexual orientation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I have mostly identified as bi, but have not slept with a woman until last summer. Previously I was very unhappy with my bf, mostly coming from sexual differences (I like kissing and need touch to feel loved, for him "sex" equals "interco...

Should I give in and date my friend if I'm not really attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I am recently single (less than six months after a two and a half year relationship), and I have been enjoying myself somewhat. I haven't been dating anyone, but I've had some casual hookups and it's been going well. Not that I am against being in a ...

I'm confused with this girl, is it really bad timing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Ok ill put this in point form so its not a bible to read -Im 19 and this girl is 21 and we go to school together -We've known each other for about 7 months now and we're close -For a good 5 months she flirted with me like crazy drawing hearts on ...

I need your opinion guys... is he playing with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Ok,so there's this guy and he is my 'friend'. About a month ago we were talking and i had the guts to tell him i like him. He told me he likes me back but i didn't believe him..i still don't. He has a reputation of been a liar and a player. We are ...

How can I talk her into having sex with me again after all these years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hi, when I was 9 me and my first cousin who was 11 and a girl, had sex. This lasted for like two years, until my parents broke up and I moved away. Me and her still talk sometimes, but we never talk about what happened back then... but we haven't ...

Met him by chance, liked him a lot, he was supposed to call, didn't, should I try to find him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I recently visited a city where a friend lives about 100 miles away from where I live. we went out that night and while looking for another friend a guy began talking to me in friendly banter. I immediatley liked him (very much a first for me) and ...

I'm bedding my best friend's daughter. How do I get out of this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Today was the 6th morning I've woke up with my very good friend's daughter in my bed. It all started when she was shopping for a car. He, not being mechanically inclined, asked me to go with her and make sure she was not getting a piece of junk. I ...