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Archived questions from: 6 February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Do boys find a girl swearing attractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Like in a tomboyish way. Girls who act like boys not in a lesbian way like the way they act and everything (you know what I mean) OR ANOTHER TYPE OF girly girls like sluts who think ther're all "IT".. They also swear alot and dab on makeup so muc...

Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...

How do I tell her how much I love her on her birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - My best friend (whom is a girl) and I have been best friends since we were in diapers. The problem? I've had a huge as hell crush on her since we were freshmeat in high school. At this point, I'm completely in love with her and every other girl I've ...

How do I tell her subtly to lay off my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - ive got a boyfriend and hes so amazing. this other girl we know fancies him and shes just told everybody even though im going out with him. i know he will never go out with her even if he wasnt going out with me. but now that she knows i know shes ...

Welcoming, inviting and including

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Regarding including others, isn't it possible that people who are used to having their own group that has gotten together for years, are so comfortable with their group that they do not want to have to invite new people and make them feel welcome? ...

He can't deal with the fact I know he's gay, I wish I never said it, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - I've been answering questions on this site for some time now. I always do it annonymously, maybe I should set up and account, we'll see. Well, now I'm going to ask for some advice. There is this guy who used to work for me, he's only 25, but we ...

I feel like such an outsider. How can I get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Ive been feeling very down lately. Ive come to realise that in my life in every aspect of it I am an outsider. And Ive lived this way for years and now I dont like it. I will start with work. I work in an office of 6 other women of all different...

What are the signs of a fairweather friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - What are the signs of a fake friend? I have a friend who completely cut me off when she got a boyfriend, and she arranged to meet up Saturday then blew me off to go somewhere else. I really try with her but sometimes she seems SO! selfish....

I'm really confused by his comments. How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Is he messing me around? I met someone that looks after my kids in the daycare nursery I use. We have met up a few times and text every day yet. He said he wanted to take it slow which I respected and felt that was the right thing to do. We ...

Would a guy be happy with just a kiss and cuddle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - There is a guy I have fallen head over heals with and he seems to like me, he stares at me kinda funny, anyway we always chat when we are alone but never when anyone else is around. We have arranged to go out together and he wants to book a hotel ...

Should I wipe the street with his ass?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - I need advice. Here is the background. My wife is a teacher and has been at the same school for 3 years now. Well, she told me a little after the beginning of this school year (last October) that this guy, who is an ex-boyfriend started teaching at ...

Help!!!I am scared of making a fool of myself as I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I asked this a few days ago but I would like some male advice as well. I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and it didn't bother me...

Valentine gift? Or moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - hey i work in a restaurant full time and theres this girls shes 17 like me and we've knowing each other for like 6 months now but I recently got moved from the kitchen to waiter so i work with her now and we have realy got to know each other her ...

He says they are just friends but I'm so insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I'm really insecure of some things in my relationship...There's a gal who's close to my guy in fact i think she's liking him:( In fact I've spoken about this to him and he tells that they are just freinds and nothing else..but i still feel the...

Was I being two-faced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - was i being two-faced? i was very close friends with this girl. due to my fault, now we are not friends. when we were friends, i had a guy friend as well. my friend did not like this guy friend and felt he is very mean. in time even i starte...

Is playing hard-to-get the best way to earn a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - What is anybody's opinion on playing hard-to-get to gain a friendship? I know some personality types that it seems like being nice and friendly is not the way to get to them. Does anybody know what I mean? It seems like they are attracted more ...

How do I tell my friend to leave her alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - Ok, so i like this girl(haven't heard that one before...) and i don't think anyone even knows this, because I've never cared that much about love or the like; Sadly, my friend keeps hitting on her, but not in any normal way, he is a little perverted ...

How can I get past the feelings I have for my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - How can I get over my friend? I am falling in love with my best friend.. we have been friends for 4 years and we talk all the time. The thing is that I am starting to have feelings for him, but he doesn't feel the same way. I am just not his type.. ...

Should I believe him or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I had a crush on this boy for almost 3 years. Well his step-sister is in my class and she knows i like him. She keeps telling me things like that he does like me or that he says hi or the she will see if he can call me. Then i put on my myspace that ...

I've hung out with him almost every day after school pretending I forgot my bus pass while I'd wait for a ride home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I just started to like this guy but he isn't my type, I don't think my friends would like him and I'm not even sure if he likes me. Besides my doubts here are some positive things: we're both the same age (16) and have similar interests and it seems ...