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writes:My guy is of the feeling that his best friend likes me..This has created some kind of misunderstanding in between us.No proper understanding:(:(However I am very sure that there is nothing like what he thinks.We even had a talk on this.The reason what's makinghim feel this is that his best friend gave me a gift on my birthday.And he hadn't mademy guy's b'day so special by giving him a gift and gave me one though im not that close tohim.There are problems of insecurity among us.he doesn't actually like me talking to any guys.I never have this problem with him.I did tell him that i'm not close to anyguy except him.But this seems to have made no effect on him.There's this girl whom he tells is his best friend.I kinda feel that she likes him but he tells there's nothing as i think.And tellsif i do trust him then there should be no feeling like what i think. I can't stop thinking.But I'm reallyscared where I'll lose him.What do i do???
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reader, x_Raquel_x  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Hi there... I have read your message and i really do feel for you on this one... I am pretty much in a similar situation as you, although my partner trusts me, he doesnt trust anyone else, weather it be a man or woman. however i do reassure my partner by letting him know that he is the one for me. the way i see things is... "why would i be with him if i didnt love him", there would be no logial reason for me to be in the realtionship if i didnt love him.
This is a self confidence issue that your partner has, and the only way around this is by reassurance and trust. if there is no trust, there is no foundation, as a relationship is built on trust.
My Heart goes out to you honey.
I do hope I have helped
Love Raquel xXx
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