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Archived questions from: 25 February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How can I get my friends to stop talking about my ex in front of H?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Hi, well I'm having girl problems again like always. My girlfriend (ex now) and I broke up because she said she liked someone else and I appreciated that she told me instead of keeping it a secret and I accepted the fact that she left but I really ...

I want to hang out with someone but I have a hard time making friends. I need to get my mind off him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I broke up. I want a relationship but we agreed to be friends and hang out. I am supposed to go to his place this weekend and I can't wait. We had been living together and that meant that I was almost never alone. Now I am moved ...

I want to take things slowly but not tooooo slowly, Opinions needed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I have known this guy (man, boy, person... whatever title you choose) for 6 months now. We met when we came to school. We had both talked prior to coming to school online. We both live in residence. Anyway, short after I came to school I went ...

He has a GF but is really nice to me and I'm afraid she's gonna get mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - i like this guy who's my senior but he already has a gf. Of course, i hope they'd have a good relationship but there's something that's been bugging me. For one, his gf keeps glaring at me in the corridor and he's been subtly being really nice for ...

How do I stop being taken for granted and seen for who I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female. I've been seeing a friend and occasionaly we makeout. But I feel he's started taking me for granted. I know I'm fulfiling some of his basic urges but I'm an attractive, intelligent girl (at the risk of sounding cocky). How ...

How can I ask him this? Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Well, the kids from our class are doing surveys about different things. Mines is about music. We have to give them to 10 different people who will take our surveys. I want to ask my crush if he wants to take mine. Tomorrow I will see him for ...

Is it okay to start getting affectionate with a friend "with benefits"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Heres a question. Is it fine to show a 'friend with benefits' affection outside the bedroom? Like holding hands, giving long hugs, saying I miss you etc or is it gonna freak him out thinking I'im asking for more? He gets uncomfortable talking ...

How can you tell if you're being used or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Well this is what happens when you get bored in astronomy class... but anyway I have been thinking a lot lately. I met a girl a few weeks ago, I hung out with her for about 4 hours the first time we met and things just clicked immediately and one ...

Falling for male friend--future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - ok so im 31, and have formed a very very close friendship with a sensitive, shy guy. I've known him a year, fell for him 6 months ago, and have spent the last 6 months looking for signs he feels the same way. I feel I have to say something or Im ...

Lack of confidence....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - The problem with me is that I have absolutely no confidence in me! I'm short and lean (5'11 and 58kg), ugly, talks tech 24 hours, jobless (thanks 2 the sharemarkets!) I just cant think I'm good! And those^^ feelings comes in my way when I t...

His university course is taking my place! How do I compromise some "us time" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Feb 09 My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 or 10 months but were the best of friends for four or so years prior to me 'making my move'. We just finished high school in november so had seen each other at LEAST 6 days a week, every week...

I think I've upset him and haven't lost what we had.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Friends with benefits: I lied 2 him and told him I had been with loads of guys but I haven't, I am still a virgin. He said he feels bad because we have done things and he feels bad that he has ruined my first time, he fingerd me and he didn't know ...

Frienship or more going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - i have this co worker that i have a thing for. i love his personality and i love how he is alway making me laugh. i know he is shy but can u help me try and figure him out? while we are at work i feel like at times he trys to avoid me and sometime...

He says he only wants to be friends, but I want to make our relationship work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up after 4 yrs dating and 1 1/2 yrs living together. I had to move in with my parents. We had been having money problems and so our sex life suffered. He says that he doesn't want a relationship but he's ok with being ...

I revealed a secret she told me and now she won't speak to me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, im a 15 year old male, who recently had my best friendship with my 15 year old female best friend Jeanny complete fall apart (it actually happened 4 months ago). However, i used to like her (i still do), and basically what happened ...

She's staying in my house, sleeping in my bed but nothing!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - OK new problem, still a virgin :( but I got this girl staying in my house, I have been friends with her for couple years now, she doesn't want to sleep on the couch so she sleeps in my bed with me, 3 nights now. I tried to make a move but no luck, ...

Any advice on how to strike up a good conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I seem to be really rather rubbish at conversing with new people, the people who I have known long term I'm fine with, but it's just new people. Now I wouldn't be asking for help on this really, but I've just started going out with this guy, who I ...