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writes:When should you expect to meet his family?We have been dating for over 8 months. I have met his son but no one else. He has met my whole family and alot of my friends. He works with his family in the family business just down the road from my work, however he wont take a lunch with me nor wants me to come to his work. A few times he forgot things at my house and I have offered to bring them by and he flat out said no no I will pick it up later or never mind!I have meantioned this on a few occasions and flat out asked when he was going to stop hiding me! He said within the month! That was a month ago! In the last same discussion i also asked him to plan our activites 50% of the time. Well this weekends email said..any bright ideas for the long weekend and his reply was other than a family get together that my son and I have to go to we are free and I dont have any brilliant ideas! SO guess what, I am hurt and wrote back..I have planting and things to do this weekend so I would not have time to meet your family anyway! Whats up with this???? HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 All right, q1605 :-). Peace and love (you find your girl and I will find mine)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): I like your family AskOlderSis, when can I get an invite to lunch, they sound just fine, especially your mum....
Dear Poster,
If you know where he works in this family business can't you pop round and see what he's hiding for yourself. He'll probably be very angry and when he's done shouting, he'll have to explain why what you did was wrong.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 June 2008):
I'm afraid you're wrong, q1605. The Sister is not only a Sister, but also a friend of mine, and I have actually seen a picture of hers.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 June 2008):
You're welcome.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 June 2008):
I know for a fact that the Sister is like the pretty blond girl in the Monster's Family :-). Maybe all the other guys are freaks, but she isn't.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 June 2008):
Sorry, I disagree partially with the good Sis. Sometimes people don't want you to meet their families because they want to get rid of you without any questions. However, the Sis does have a point: maybe his family is the problem. He might not want YOU to meet his family out of fear about what you will think of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): q1605 answer was ignorant I dont need valium. I know another saying if you have nothing nice to say dont say it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): Hey thanks I get it! its not me it the family he has a problem with!
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reader, goodiea  +, writes (26 June 2008):
it is not his family that he dont want you to meet there is a bigger and darker secret and you need to sit him down and talk to him
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