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writes: i met a man over the internet a year and a half ago. we hit it off really well and i now live with him in australia. today is our one year anniversary of the day that i came here and i wanted to do something really special for him but i dont have any money as the visa i am on doesnt allow me to work right now. so i cant go out and buy him something. and we are staying with his parents that cook dinner every night so i cant do that. i really dont have any ideas and i want tonight to be really special. i cant take him to any special places or anything cause by the time he gets home from work he is super tired. anybody have any suggestions of what i can do to make the night really special for us cause i just dont have any ideas. what do you guys like? and what have you girls done to make it really special? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Ask him politely to pick up a six pack or a bottle of wine on his way home from work. Then pack a little radio and take him to the beach and chat it up all night under the moon and the stars. Get tipsy, laugh alot, be sweet to him, make him feel special (dont' be too mushy, just have fun), enjoy each others company, and take it from there...who knows maybe you will both end up naked in the water getting it on...That sounds lovely.
Men like spontaneity and adventure MUCH MUCH more than romantic dinners, flowers, and hearts.
Now, on the other hand, if HE was the one asking the question, then I would suggest the romantic dinner, the flowers and the hearts. Get it? Good luck and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Here are some suggestions....
Give him a nice birthday treat by indulging in a night of pleasure- Get some candles or tea light candles (they are very cheap if you dont have any already) and make it a romantic affair- perhaps in the background play your favourite songs, or the songs that were around when you got together.
You could write him a love letter.This may be the cheapest of things to do, but trust me, even if he isnt a romantic, if you make it really personal, its something that you would have put a lot of thought into, and he would be more appreciated of the letter than you spending money. Write of all the memories before you got together, when you moved, and all the happy and fun memories youve had so far. Also, write about the future, like, write about how you cant wait to continue your relationship into your second year!
- Alternative suggestion - a sexy love letter!
Write him a naughty love letter. Write about all your sexy moments that youve had together and point out the best things he does, and the best/naughtiest/romantic things that he's done. tell him about the best times youve had, and say you want to re-live it!
Tell him in the letter what you are going to do to him, and what you want him to o to you! Be daring, saucy and naughty when you write this letter!
Any personal love letter shows that you have put a lot of thought into making/writing it, so i dont think you can go wrong with it! Its something that he can treasure forever.
Good luck! xxx
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Wellz if you have candles in the house you can light them and then turn off a few lights, also you should talk to the mother and see if she might let you guys be alone that day. Her being a woman would probably side with you and her and her husband might leav :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): What is the chances that you can convince his mother you want to spoil him and all of them by doing the dinner; tell her why, she might be happy and even assist you;
other then that....well spoil him in the bedroom....a few candles; a few new tricks.....something different; make him a special homemade card....put it on his pillow; take a Tshirt, do a bif heart on it....your names o it; wear that to bed with nothing else.....parade and maybe do a "silent dance" for him....tease him...Oh I am sure if you allow your imgagination to get going along those lines you will come up with lots more.
Good luck; Have a great time!
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