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Sexual crush on my cousin! I'm tempted to try something,,,advice needed!..

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Question - (30 August 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've had a sexual crush on my cousin, I would always get a "hard on" when I thought about her. Then one night, 2 yrs ago, we slept in the same bed, since she usually slept with my lil sisters, but she didnt like them. I found out she was a REALLY deep sleeper. While she was sleeping I was tempted to do stuff to her but I chicken out. My mom said my aunt, my cousins mom, wanted me to visit them this summer. I might end up trying the same thing. What do I do?

We're both 16

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008):

Wow, her mom is okay with the two of you sharing a bed? Some family. It sounds like she may want you to impregnate her daughter, for some weird reason. I'd try talking to her mom and discretely find out what's going on. If you have a green light, go for it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008):

No, PLEASE don't act on your feelings unless she is consenting to it, you could find yourself in alot of trouble both legally and within your family!

Maybe try talking to her first and finding out whether your feelings are recipriocated ... BEFORE you try having sex with her?

Women aren't sex toys, you know!

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A female reader, hello kitty United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2008):

i know you are having sexullal feelings. my advice go for it just to get your concus clean because this could drive you crazy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008):

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thanks, this helps, I think I just have a crushe on any girl T_T

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008):

DON'T try anything sexual with your cousin, especially while she is sleeping. If she hasn't consented to the sexual activity, what you're doing would be assault or rape and would be seen as such by the legal system in your area.

I suggest you refrain from this trip if you think sexually abusing your cousin (because that's what we're talking about here) is something you won't be able to stop yourself from trying. Stay home and concentrate on checking out girls who aren't biologically related to you!

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A female reader, shilohmorgan Canada +, writes (30 August 2008):

You really need to get some help. Speak with your pastor or a relative or neighbor about your thoughts, because it's not natural to feel this way about your cousin. You may end up doing something that will cause you a great deal of harm. Please seek help.

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