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*LoveBrendan
writes:okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her?--Confused Reply to this Question
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reader, ask sweeney :)  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 i feel this is completly normal you have nothing to worry about at all, well except she might start sex early, but theres nothing to worry about
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reader, gudtyme1 +, writes (1 September 2008):
Good grief - chill out - she's NORMAL!
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reader, gudtyme1 +, writes (1 September 2008):
Good grief - chill out - she's NORMAL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): Of course not, It is perfectly normal ... although I expect she may feel a little embarrassed that you are aware of it!
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reader, MissHelp +, writes (30 August 2008):
Your sister is normal. She is exploring her body and at least masturbating isn't risky. What would you rather her do babe? Masturbate or have sex? I know what I'd pick for her. It's your sisters decision so let her have some privacy and get on with life. Luck! xx
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (30 August 2008):
 This is normal. You're too young to know that, but really it is. Knock on her door next time.
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reader, smarterman  +, writes (29 August 2008):
let me tell you something that not normal, because if she gets used to it, she will not be able to give up it and beside, she will not be able to enjoy having sex with her hasband if she get married, if someone tell that normal he or she know nothing about masturbating,
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 August 2008):
 You have very good grammar for a 10 yr old! Hmmm...
She is perfectly normal.
C xxxx
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reader, natasia +, writes (29 August 2008):
 No, it's perfectly natural. I guess it was quite a shock for you to see, though - hopefully in the future you won't come across her doing this again - she needs to do it in private!!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (29 August 2008):
 Hey before you go into her room next time KNOCK!!! She is growing up to be a woman, she needs her privacy and masturbation is completely normal.
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reader, Depressed-Girl +, writes (29 August 2008):
She is totally normal, just exploring and having a little bit of fun. Lots of people masturbate, maybe your teacher, a lil ten year old, maybe even your dad. good luck with your prob and please don't judge her!!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): This was probably a big shock for you as you are both so young i am sure you dont want to think of your sister as having sexual thoughts just yet, let alone trying things out. It is perfectly normal and all children will touch themselves at all ages, your sister is just experimenting it doesnt mean she is ready to have sex with a boy that may be years away from happening, aphexy gave good advice remember to knock on her door from now on your sis needs her privacy, hard as it may be not to talk to friends about what you saw this is a very private matter and i am sure you wouldnt want to start silly gossip, dont let it change things at home she is still your big sis and will probably one day be your best friend too, after all who else can you ever share so much history with :-)
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reader, TAYL0Rshawtyy.  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 no, its okay. everyone masturbates wellprobably not literally everyone, but lots of people do, and lots of different age groups. i was 12 when i started doing it.its PERFECTLY normal so don't worry, its wayyy better than her going out and doing worse things.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (29 August 2008):
 no nothing is wrong with her she is just exploring her bodie and how it feels.. all people go through it just at different ages..dont worry its fine and natural as long as she is doing it in her own privacy, maybe try and knock in future though.. so dont worry its fine good luck aphexy xx
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