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writes:I have a younger brother he is 16 and im 18. i have been been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and always noticed that my brother acted weird around her and would always bring her up in conversation. Last weekthat he has always had feelings for her and he cant get over her. He also described fantasys he had about her (romantic kind not dirty) and his friend was telling him he should just go for it then they started planning when he could get her on her own to make his move. Im confused to what i should do i really dont want him doing something and it all becoming awkward. Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry i meant to mention that it was last week i overheard him talking with his friend i just read over what i said lolthanks for the advice i have been on the phone with her and she said she noticed ages ago but has been waiting on him getting over it as she has no interest in him in that way (relieved lol) i will try to get him interested in one of her friends like you mentioned but hes just gonna have to get over her so for now we will be avoiding him when she comes over to mine
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reader, howardlyndsey  +, writes (27 August 2008):
You need to check your little brother. That is your girl and he is only 16 and better go find a girlfriend at high school. Also, talk to your girlfriend and you both become a "united front" as one so that she is not unintentionally flirting with him or giving him the idea that she likes him. As long as your girlfriend is on the same page with you than you should be fine. And your little brother is just going to have to deal.
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Well good luck in keeping her. i hope for your sake that your brother isn't amazingly gorgeous.Tell him to back off - or even better find him a distraction, maybe one of her friends...Your brother is a prick and shouldn't try to plan stealing your gf!It is unfair and you should tell him that.Jellyxxx
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