A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have noticed so many woman suffer abuse at the hands of there partners and as somone who has suffered a really abbusive realtionship and come out the oher side i want to say how i did it! Firstly if you have a freind that is in a abusive relationship, pls dont nag them about there partners this will not help it will drive them away from you and closer to the abuser! A woman will not leave until there ready no matter what is going on, pls try and renember this woman, or man has loved this person. Love is a hard thing to turn off. If you are suffering abuse from a partner there are ways to get help and ways to leave! Firstly the police can help, i would never call them and when somone else did i would always refuse to make a statement, but when i finally did they were great! They made sure i had double glazed unit windows, alarms in the house and they sent a woman around to the house to get me training to further my job prospects! I also made sure i had safe houses to go to when things got really rough, i had clothes and the things i needed there! I made sure i had a mobile by my bed when i slept mainly for peace of mind!I emagined that my ex partner would be worse than ever when i left and he was for a few days, but i made sure i went out with others, always made freinds call before they came over so i knew who i was unlocking the door too and changed all my numbers.He followed me around for months always turning up in the same places and glaring at me, but my freinds told me to keep smiling and i did, eventually he would leave!I know leaving somone you love is hard, but your safty is so important! Dont worry about not being able to cope you will. Trust in the police and other agencys and charitys they are there to help. Get out and eventually you will be happy, no man is worth staying with if they cause you harm and unhappyness. Stay strong girls and dont be bullied!
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