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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

We got back together 2 months ago after he cheated, but now it's really bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year when he unexpectially cheated on me. Our relationship was going very well and we didn't have any problems. I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school, he just turned 18 and started college. The first week of ...

Do you follow your head or your heart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I am married to a wonderful man. He is smart, kind, has a good job, and is a hard worker. In fact, I love him - but only as a friend. I don't want a physical relationship with him at all. I have told him I want a separation, but I am not sure if ...

I had a problem opening up, because I've never opened up completely, not even with my family, and with him I was always scared of his reactions and judgements. Now he's broken up for good! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me. He says it's for good this time (we've broken up before). Basically, he had issues with my past, I have low self esteem, he had trust issues (because of my past and because I never gave him all the details....

I finally told him about my lies to him, and he broke up with me, calling me selfish and manipulative! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so a few years ago, a boy moved to where i live, and i liked him instantly but i was too afraid to say anything to him...i liked him for three years until i finally found out that he likes me too, and we ended up getting togeather, it was an ...

Should I be worried that he's still friends with his rebound girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago over an argument about one of his female friends. Nothing was going on with them but he was lying to me about seeing her and I had had enough. He swore he had no feelings for her. 3 days after we broke u...

He says he wants a break. Does that mean I should move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hi ..I am so confused right now.What does a break mean? I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 mons now.We have spent every weekend together since.he is very active in my kids life.Past 2 weeks we have been a bit distant.So I did a little snooping ...

Should I give her another chance, even though she has lied to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Okay so ill make this as easy as possible to understand. Im 18, and my current girlfriend is 17. we dated for about one year and then had a nasty breakup. Hours after I broke up with her, I was calling and texting saying I was sorry and that I ...

Broke up, now I have to move out. Should I tell him I am going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - I had hurtful break up with my ex month ago. It was the most difficult situation I ever faced. He was my true love, he lied on me and he said stay here in my place as long as you need as a good friend and good flatmate, but I found out that he is ...

Why hasn't he made contact? Is it because he doesn't care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from any guys out there, on why my now ex-bf might be acting how he is. To cut a long story short, we were together for 8 years. He split with me 18 months ago, saying he wanted space/time to himself (I later...

I'm trying to move on, but she won't let me. She keeps contacting me, so she is always on my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - I've been in a 4 year relationship with my current girlfriend. 2 of those have been long distance. Coming to the end of the long distance she became uneasy that I wasn't committing with respect to marriage. I wasn't in a position to think of marri...

One minute everything was great, the next I had lost the person I love most in the whole world. How do you get over that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - So right now I feel like an utter mess and am not sure how to deal with it. Could use some advice. Here's the story: I have had the most amazing year with my first love (who I was close friends with for 6 months first as well) and I love so many t...

I really don't know how to get my ex back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Im looking for some advice a little about two month ago me and my ex broke up. I was living with her.We was alway fighting and her family was get involved. her mother would cried everything we would fight. Me and my ex was not seening eye to eye. We ...

I got out of an abusive relationship. How can I move on and meet someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I've come out of a very controlling, mentally abusive, unhappy relationship. And im still dealing with the pain and upset of how he used to make me feel. I've been to counselling and I am over the worst but not quite there yet. It was a year ago ...

Should I stay secretly unhappy in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I need help? I am in a de-facto relationship of 18 months, we have bought a lovely home together. I love him very much but unfortunately it is the old hollywood line "I love him but I'm not IN love with him". I don't want to hurt him, I thought I ...

Am I making a decision based on rationality or am I just fed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together in my home and have children from previous relationships. He is still married and trying to get custody of his children. The children live here 1 week and at their mother's for another ...

The fight was something silly but he broke up with me and won't talk to me now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I had a big fight with my boyfriend yesterday and he broke up with me. We were yelling at each other on the phone and that's how it went. It's been 2 days now and he haven't returned any of my calls and keeps clicking the cancel button when ...