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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Divorced and remarried, but I am still in love with my ex-husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I was married for 30 yrs. We divorced, and I remarried almost a year later. He has not. The problem is we still love each other, and I dont think I love my new husband like I do my first husband. I dont think it is fair to keep this marrige going ...

Met him online 6 weeks ago, he wanted to take it slow, didn't know what he wanted and I ended it because I couldnt be just friends. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Dear all, I met this guy online six weeks ago and it went well. We dated but only once a week. We'd call almost every day or every other day. Every time I am at his house we kiss and hug and touch each other but did not have sex. He never...

He went away for a month and now we hardly talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hi Readers, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, before we got together we were best friends. At the beginning of our relationship, we spoke often, he called often, we saw each other often, communication wa...

Why didn't he open up to me when I opened up to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Ok so I was in a relationship for 3 years with this guy who would always cheat and I would always forgive him. Finally I had enough when we moved to another state. I started seeing this guy(Guy1)behind his back so we broke up. This guy turned out to ...

Does he love me after what he said?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is almost 20 and I'm 18. we've been dating for 16 months and he says I'm the best thing ever in his life and that he'd die for me. so we watched city of angels on the couch the other day and we were talking about pregnancy and ...

Why is he angry? he broke up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I slept with my ex boyfriends friend. Me and my ex boyfriend split up four months ago it was his decision to end it and I was crushed by his decision. During the four months in which we weren't together me and a friend of his who I had met wh...

He's married and I want him back!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I just got back in contact with my ex that i was truly in love with but he cheated and left me for another women and married her. Years later I moved into a certain area and he stayed across the street from me. We talk and got caught up with one ...

Should I even talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - (Sorry this is REALLY long!) Last November I was in a play at my previous college (it was a 2 year and I graduated and moved on), during the play my friend (Carrie) and I met a guy named Brian. Well him and my friend got close and started dating; ...

He told me if I left him he'd be a "walking dead person"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I've been trying to break up with my long distance boyfriend for what seems like a month now...We live in different countries and I'd have to wait a lot of time in order to meet him again. Maybe even a year. I know it's horrible to break up thro...

Opinions please. Do you think he wants to get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - My ex broke up with my 3 weeks ago. He then said he really wanted to see me. So I met up with him, but he didnt have anything overly 'important' to say. We chatted and laughed a fair bit etc. He asked me if there were any other guys in my life and I ...

How do you react when you break up but your ex wont give you the space to heal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - you are dating someone and you break up and you don't have time to heal because they call you and act like nothing has changed and then they suggest to you to move in and act like roomates but they also say I love you and call you sweetheart and so ...

Is he sending me mixed signals on purpose or is he just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex four months ago (we dated six months). I did see him all summer because he is involved with my daughters hobby. We ended up having lunch twice in one week. After the first lunch I was reminded of how much fun we have ...

Is he too young to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I'm currently heartbroken. i had been with my boyfriend for over a year but lately i realised he had become distant and didnt want to see me as much. i asked him what was wrong and he finally confessed that he didn't kno what he wanted anymore but ...

I want him back, but don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Me and my partner of 2 years split 2 days ago, and i am heartbroken! i have always had trust issues to do with my past and stuff, but he gave me the fuel to make me think that something was going on behine my back when it wasnt. We are still living ...

Is he reconsidering the break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so I really need some perspective on this! I was dating this amazing guy for almost a year, but then he suddenly broke up with me a week ago saying it was him not me, still wants to be friends, blah blah blah. I can't be friends, so when he ...

I miss him and I really miss the sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I recently broke up with this guy (about a little more than a month now). I miss him and I really miss the sex. I do feel horny at times but don't know what to do. Any advice......

Do you think I should break it off with my boyfriend and start fresh in the new school year??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

10 September 2009 (?) - I started my sophmore year of high school today and my bf is a senior. We aren't in any of the same classes and he's planning on working a lot this year plus I have cheerleading every day till 5 and then games at night. He keeps thinking that we ...