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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I improve the outcome of the month break? I want to get back with my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up a few days ago... he said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. he also said that he needs space and when we were in the relationship that i smothered him, and i didn't give him enough space. he said t...

Ever since I moved back to her town, our relationship has been different. Now she wants a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Im have been dating this woman officially for 6 months. To ease the strain she asked if I would return back to our college town with her for a while, she has a yr left. When I got down here everything changed. we are staying together and she said ...

I want to win him back, jerk or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - It's a very long story. He and I have been best friends for 4 years, then he asked me out, since then we've been together for 3 years. Many ups and downs, two beak-ups. I still love him. Recently, he broke up with me because he said he has feeling ...

Where is this going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - so, its 6 years we have known each other 5 and a half we have been a couple, since feb we have lived together. he is a part of my life in every way christmas with my family, birthdays new year. but i have never met his parents, and i cant do it ...

Am I in love with her, or do I just love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I've been in this relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and everything his been going really well (except for a few hiccups). But lately ive been feeling different about this whole relationship. I spoke to a friend and they ...

Should I just take it slow for a couple of months and if it doesn't move forward, move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I don't understand. We broke up but he keeps coming back to me. He told me he doesn't want a commitment but when I don't call him he keeps calling me and I go back. He is all lovey dovey like a true relaionship even talking about us vacationing ...

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - why don't talk to me anymore and i think he has dumped me. he never talk's or texts me the last time we talked was the 2nd of september and everything was fine then we spoke about the new house and getting married but now nothing. and i have found ...

He doesn't want to be with me after 6 years of a relationship, does he still think about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 years already, we spent most of our days together and happy. We would argue off lil things but I didn't think it was really serious that one day he told me he wanted to be single!! I know, knowing ...

Everyone thinks my ex b/f was so great but he abused me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I am struggeling to deal with the break up with my ex abusive bf. I feel so confused as my feelings are very conflicitng. It hurts to love someone who abused you. It doesnt even make sense. I know i shoudlnt feel this way but I do. I love him. ...

I need her back in my life and know she has feelings for me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi everyone I split up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago and did not cope well with the break up. We had been together 2 years and I had taken a second job in order to save up enough money to take her to Paris and propose (she didn't and ...

All I want is for us to be together as a family, how can we work through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 6 months wants a break to concentrate on her son,i find this hard,we got together after we split with our long term partners,i was with my ex for 13 years,her with hers for 6 years,her relationship was very abusive and violent,her ...

My ex's post is still coming to my house and they are like little bundles of memories coming through my door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I broke up with my partner of 4 years about 5 months ago. We haven't had any contact since we broke up. We were living together and it was my house and he had to leave and he wasn't too happy about it. Any way his post is still coming to my hom...

I prefer to be single! So why can't I just break up with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I am the queen of non-commitment. Im like the one female on earth that doesnt believe in marriage and children, I dont believe humans are built that way. Ive been in a relationship for 3 months now, and everything is awful but I cant seem to end it! ...

I didn't say anything to her yet, and I need some advice on what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I had a relationship with a girl right after summer ended. We had to go our own ways, but we still remained together, so it turned into a long-distance relationship. After a couple weeks, she said that long-distance relationships di...

He ripped out my heart and now I feel ruined! Please help me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I am so sad, feel like such a fool, so angry, and so hopeless, and alone. I met jeremy 10 mths ago. We clicked right away. same taste in music, movies, books, and more. Same sense of humor, views on life. We became best friends and were in ...

why hasn't he come to get his stuff yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up a year long relationship with me two weeks ago, saying "I don't see a future with you, it's not you, it's me, still wanna be friends, blah blah blah..." So, I was upset but I'm moving on. The thing is, he's doing friendly ...

We miss eachother alot. How can we possibly cut contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I've just come out of a relationship. It lasted for 3 months over the summer holiday, and it has ended now that I have gone back to university. We broke up only yesterday, and I know that's not a lot of time to allow for mourning, but at the moment ...