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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I don't want to lose him but should we go on break for a month?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together very nearly 3 years. We went through a very bad patch, involving heavy arguments, often about petty things, but sometimes about my paranoid thoughts regarding him and other women. I'd often get ve...

I've broken up with him so I don't get hurt.... but it hurts so much!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy for almost 11 months.. We stopped seeing each other about 2 weeks ago, because he was not ready for a serious relationship ( but we were exculsive ) I had to cut him loose cuz i wanted more. Yea it took me a while to let him ...

He wants space to find himself... or does he just want to cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating when i was 17 and he was 18 he was my first everything. Now 4 years later, he tells me that he wants to find himself, because hes unemployed and taking another semester off for school. We still spend time together ...

Can I be his friend now I'm no longer his mistress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hello I recently broke up with a married man with whom I was having an affair. Actually, he was the one who broke up with me saying that he didn't want to lead me on and he didn't want to hurt his wife and family. He got this wake-up cal...

He was so nasty, I don't understand why I still think about him all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me with this problem. I just can't seem to get over my ex even though we split two years ago. I know I should be over him by now and all my friends tell me this. I find myself thinkIng about him all the time. He ...

What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...

Why is it so hard to get over someone...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Why is it hard to get over someone even though you know that there are so many better guys out there that are fighting for a chance to date you? I am just so confused!! I compare every guy to my ex, and even if the new guy seems to have every ...

Do I want friendship or do I just miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - After a troubled relationship we had to broke up, and I had really bad time and awful summer, we were happy in the first but we reached a point that we couldn’t stand each other , and my boyfriend had to broke up with me ,was his choice and he ...

Help, I've been dumped... what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I've been dumped by my boyfriend of 2 years, toally out of the blue when all had been going well for months no arguments or drama. we had a small argument one morning before he left for work, all day he didnt message me ( which he usually does all ...

After being rejected how are you supposed to act like it doesn't hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - When you get rejected by someone. Someone that doesn't feel the same way for you. How are you supposed to act like it doesn't bother you? How are you supposed to act like nothing ever happened? God, I have been praying forever and talking to him to ...

She won't be with me because of my self destructiveness. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - me n my ex broke up a month ago cuz i become mentally adicted to aerosol cans after awhile we hung out again n we told eachother we loved eachother we had sex a few times and all the feelings came back but her parents hate me and wouldnt let her be ...

How does one work at getting their ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up 3 months ago. I was not able to give him what he needed due to a number of reasons, a job that required most of my energy, i averaged 12 hours per day, aging parents living in a different state, my youngest ...

What shall I say to her? She really broke my heart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - Ok so this about my ex. We broke up two weeks ago as of 9/19/09 and I thought I was almost completly over her. I had even asked her sister out because I thought that was over her and was ready to move on. Anyhow, yesterday I was at school and ...