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writes:My ex broke up with my 3 weeks ago. He then said he really wanted to see me. So I met up with him, but he didnt have anything overly 'important' to say. We chatted and laughed a fair bit etc. He asked me if there were any other guys in my life and I said no and he laughed and said 'sure sure'. I asked him if there were any girls in his life and he said no. He kept asking me if I was cold, and I kept saying no. when we were dating he would always ask me and id say yes (cause im sensitive to the cold) and he would hug me to make me warm.He said he still has photos of us and looks at them because they are great photos and makes him happy because they remind him of good times we shared. He kept saying how he thought i was gorgeous. He said he had missed me and it was great seeing me againg and hopes to see me again. He hugged me good bye, but it didnt feel like to friends hugging. He hugged me for a long time and really tightly, like you do to your gf. And then when i pulled a bit back from the hug we both looked at each other in the eyes and for a split second i almost went in to kiss him because it just felt natural but i didnt and there was a bit of awkwardness like we both didnt know what to do cause we had hugged and normllly we would kiss, but coudlnt this time cause we arent bf and gf anymore. Do you think he wants to get back together? Why didnt he make a move?On the flip side to all of this, he has been a bit of a jerk since we broke up too. Hes done some nasty things including spreding rumours about me and putting me down to my face and to his friends. Is he just playing some game?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): I think he probably still loves you and has some regrets or worries that he made the wrong decision and he doesn't really want to let you go fully.
I don't know if this means he wants to get back together though. But if you want to find out, then try not contacting him at all for awhile and if he keeps calling you every day and acting interested in your life, then ask him if he wants to try again.
But think really hard about why he broke up with you and if you think things will be different this time. Ask him why he said those things about you and tell him how that made you feel. The big question is do you really want to go through another break up or do you think that you both can do better next time?
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (10 September 2009):
 Yes, it sounds like he wants to get back together with you.
But do you want to get back together with him? Remember all of the nasty things he did...can you forgive him for this? Has he said sorry and you felt he truly meant it? Are you sure he won't do this again? Why did you break up?
Think very carefully about what you want.
Good Luck and I hope this works out well for you!
Oh, and if you do decide you want him back have a very long talk with him. Tell him everything that you are thinking and make it clear what you want. Ask him what he wants.
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