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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Is it possible just to give up on love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - It's been 8 months since my ex dumped me. I tried being friends after the break up which was a mistake and just hurt me more. Her and I are over. I kind of want to send her a message saying we can't be friends but that would be pointless. I've ...

My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it ...

Do I still like my boyfriend more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking of ending it. I've always been an undecided person, so I'm seeking for a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months. We're both 16. He really is a great guy; Calm, kin...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

Is it possible to change a man's mind once they've settled on a course?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've written before about my boyfriend who is going through a divorce and that I feel as though he has been showing less interest in me as a person recently and been a bit complacent towards me - even though he did make the effort to see me...

I am desperate to meet someone. Why am I having trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a woman in my mid forties. I was in a relationship with a man a while back but, broke up. I still see him since we travel in the same circles. It took me a long time to get over him. I really fell for this guy and it has been...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

How should I act around her when we hang out? I want her to want me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but we still talked a lot and hung out and she still tells me she loves me. We broke up because we were fighting a lot (which was usually because of me being a ass) but since we have broke up I have ...

I've never had a penny off my ex-husband, is it too late to do anything about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i left my hub 10 years ago we stopped friends. ive never had a penny of him. is it to late to do anything about it?...

Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a ...

How can I show my ex I've changed and that I want her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down. We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depresse...

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...

I feel as if I have given my all to this guy but I'm worried I might not get anything in return!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi all, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and am now in a long-distance relationship with a guy who I love very dearly. In fact, it was falling for him which made me realise that my previous relationship wasn't working. I fe...

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...

Why did he break up with me? And why is he talking trash about me at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 1 1/2 years younger than me. When we first became boyfriend and girlfriend his mom told me 1 month into the relationship he had gotten in trouble for drugs prior to us dating but that he had stopped. He told me he ...

Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was ...