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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

What to do when the ex who messed you about wants you back? I never got over him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - what do you do when you were with you're ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, so in love.. but it all fell apart, because of his mistakes, he changed, started to treat me horribly, messed me about and so on.. nearly a year down the line after breaking ...

Having a bad tug of war with my heart..over my current guy and the ex bf! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Alright, so my ex and I had been dating for just over a month when he broke up with me because I was distracting him from God (since we are both Christians) and that he just needed time and space to figure things out in his life because he has a ho...

I have to make a choice between 2 men as I'm hurting them..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I am torn between two men. The first is my boyfriend of 7 months, he is the best thing that's ever happened to me and is completely devoted to me in every way. We began a long distance relationship in September when I moved away to university, and ...

How can I tell my ex I love him without making things awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so; me and my boy friend broke up and I still have feelings for him, and I don't know how to tell him. I kinda thinks he still has feelings for me too he always flirts with me, and texts me. But I just need to know how to tell him that I still ...

I am struggling with the end of our relationship. I need closure.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I am struggling to cope with the end of a 9 year relationship, and need some advice on how to get through it all as my now ex-bf has cut all contact, leaving me with many unanswered questions and no closure at all. We were together 9 years, lived ...

I hate the feeling of being lonely and desparate to find someone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone, I'm desperately in need of some advice when it comes to relationships. Right now i feel as though i've been cursed in that area or something :(. My first real relationship was 2 yrs ago, with a guy that i had liked for more then 6y...

Why is my ex-girlfriend blocking me on msn and Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block ...

Does my ex still care? Why do I shake when I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i was seeing this boy on/off for 2 years, he was my first love...But all he ever done was sleep with other girls, lie and put me down sometimes, but he was still caring and treated me ok i guess. now its been a year and im over him, im now in a ...

Am I still with him because I am afraid of being alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for about 3 years now. I love him very much, the deepest love i have ever felt for anyone. We have broken up 3 times and I have been the one to break up with him. The first time we dated 3 mont...

Does he really love me if he needs time to think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I spilt up from my boyfriend of three and a half years almost 7 months ago. There has been a lot of hurt and pain caused, and a lot of things said and done and as a results we have found it really difficult to get back together. However, we still ...

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...

I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was...

Is there an Islamic solution that would mean a married woman could divorce her husband and marry her true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I loved a girl but she was pressured by her parents to get married two years back, however she loved me so much that she did not let her husband come close to her which means they did not have any sexual relation, her husband is a nice guy but she ...

Will I ever get over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend ended our long term relationship 2 months ago and i'm still struggling to get over it. We live in a village/small town and so I do occasionally bump into her. Because of this we have kept in contact - maybe once a week/fortnight w...

Why do I want to see him have sex with another woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I moved out a month ago because my boyfriend felt caged in and wanted out frankly so did I. He wants to have sex with other women and wants me to be tolerant. I do not believe that he can or wants to establish boundaries with these women that would ...

He doesn't want to marry someone who already has a child, can I ever be sure if this relationship is serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - hi i dont know if u can answer my question. im in love with this guy i really do love him so much, my problem is i have a child and he dont have any and he once told me that he dont want to marry a person who have a child, though it was hard to ...

I feel paralyzed...how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I split up with my husband 4 years ago and have been living apart since then. I have no desire to with him anymore, yet I can't bring myself to file for divorce. Everytime I think of doing it, I just feel sick and horrible inside. Yet I know I do ...

Opinions needed. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost two years. She had tendencies that bothered me and I believe it is part of her personality and will never change. Part of me doesn't want this relationship to end because I care about her very much, ...